why do some guys finish (orgasm) fast?!

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30-09-05, 03:05 PM
alleycat

why do some guys finish (orgasm) fast?!

always wondered about that! :nerd:
common reasons:
#1 inexperience
#2 long abstinence
#3 ... what is # 3? what about #4, and 5, 6 ... ur getting my meaning?
30-09-05, 03:30 PM
Only-virgins

Because it feels good and what feels good you want to get to as fast as possible. Simpe enough for you?
30-09-05, 04:00 PM
NeoSeminole

why do some girls take forever to orgasm? That's what I'd like to know.
30-09-05, 04:01 PM
Only-virgins

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Originally Posted by NeoSeminole

why do some girls take forever to orgasm? That's what I'd like to know.

seriously, me too. *waits patiently*
30-09-05, 04:02 PM
alleycat

Quote:

Originally Posted by NeoSeminole

why do some girls take forever to orgasm? That's what I'd like to know.

LOL that would be my in my other post! :stuckup:
30-09-05, 04:06 PM
alleycat

PS ... when i say quick ... i mean he lasts 5-10min tops (says that its not his usual style, PUHLEEZE who would believe this cr*p!?!)
30-09-05, 10:32 PM
TAVS

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Originally Posted by alleycat

PS ... when i say quick ... i mean he lasts 5-10min tops (says that its not his usual style, PUHLEEZE who would believe this cr*p!?!)

Wait, you said quick and then you said 5-10mins tops..... I'm confused. :goofy:
30-09-05, 10:40 PM
Junsui

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Originally Posted by TAVS

Wait, you said quick and then you said 5-10mins tops..... I'm confused. :goofy:

lol is it suppose to last longer than that?
30-09-05, 10:41 PM
shh!

I know this will be disappointing to read, but 6-10 minutes of actual intercourse is statistically average. That is why god gave men mouths with tongues. Compensation.

Why do some girl's take forever to orgasm? Inexperienced partners or her own mental preoccupation with something other than the task at hand.
30-09-05, 10:43 PM
Junsui

That's true! :D
30-09-05, 10:44 PM
Lloyd95

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Originally Posted by shh!

I know this will be disapointing to read, but 6-10 minutes of actual intercourse is statistically average. That is why god gave men mouths with tongues. Compensation.

6-10 mins.! :horror:

Well I hope someone here can last 14 mins. to counter-average me! :D
30-09-05, 10:44 PM
TAVS

So what you're saying is that my 2" penis and mind-blowing 2 mins isn't going to cut it?
30-09-05, 10:45 PM
shh!

14 minutes? You're the man, Lloyd!
30-09-05, 10:46 PM
Lloyd95

Quote:

Originally Posted by shh!

14 minutes? You're the man, Lloyd!

Re-read Shh!
30-09-05, 10:51 PM
Junsui

Quote:

Originally Posted by TAVS

So what you're saying is that my 2" penis and mind-blowing 2 mins isn't going to cut it?

Sure it will....just gotta have a lot of foreplay ;)
30-09-05, 10:52 PM
Lloyd95

"foreplay"???
30-09-05, 10:55 PM
shh!

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Originally Posted by Lloyd95

Re-read Shh!

UUgghh! My coffee hasn't kicked in yet, you little girl.
:-D
30-09-05, 10:56 PM
Junsui

It's some new thing.
30-09-05, 11:01 PM
Lloyd95

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Originally Posted by Junsui

It's some new thing.

Ok then, I'll look into it! ;)
30-09-05, 11:27 PM
Junsui

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Originally Posted by Lloyd95

Ok then, I'll look into it! ;)

You should, I hear it's real good.
30-09-05, 11:29 PM
TAVS

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Originally Posted by Junsui

You should, I hear it's real good.

As long as it doesnt aid in the spread of cooties.
30-09-05, 11:34 PM
Junsui

Quote:

Originally Posted by TAVS

As long as it doesnt aid in the spread of cooties.

It probably does.
01-10-05, 04:07 AM
Late_vamp

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Originally Posted by Junsui

It probably does.

wow , the average is 6-10 mins ... i would have thought at least an hour . guess im a duracell (last long and keeps going and going and going ...)
01-10-05, 04:10 AM
shh!

Yay! I think I love you, late vamp!
01-10-05, 04:45 AM
Tone

I told you guys, Rafael is the man.
01-10-05, 06:35 AM
BlackRose

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Originally Posted by Only-virgins

Because it feels good and what feels good you want to get to as fast as possible. Simpe enough for you?

And you wonder why you are single and STILL a virgin. Sad...
03-10-05, 08:17 AM
disasterjohn

God made the male cum quick for "survival of the quickest". Its evident throughout the animal kingdom... quicker is better. Humans have evolved a little and no longer need such things(quick cum) but biologically... its here to stay.
03-10-05, 08:35 AM
shh!

Now let's not go blaming God for man's failures. If I were God, that would really piss me off.
:-D
03-10-05, 08:51 AM
Asip4u

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Originally Posted by Late_vamp

wow , the average is 6-10 mins ... i would have thought at least an hour . guess im a duracell (last long and keeps going and going and going ...)

sure sure Lv...For me...15-20 mins.
03-10-05, 09:14 AM
Late_vamp

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Originally Posted by Asip4u

sure sure Lv...For me...15-20 mins.

no really , im serious ! i really thought the average was like an hour . i never came in under at least half-hour . my average is 45 - 90 mins ... thats if she can take it . if shes too tired or i made her cum and she's done (usually after 25 -45 mins) then i cum a couple of mins after her ( i ask her to do things , ex; spread it up , some kind of pose or a Bj ) and then either she makes me cum or i rub one out on her .

im just very resistant and i dont get tired fast , thats all (no bragging) .

i wont even mention how much time i went the longest , last time i did , nobody believed me (wheres my ex when you need her so she could agree and approve that i was right ).
03-10-05, 09:17 AM
Asip4u

Quote:

Originally Posted by Late_vamp

no really , im serious ! i really thought the average was like an hour . i never came in under at least half-hour . my average is 45 - 90 mins ... thats if she can take it . if shes too tired or i made her cum and she's done (usually after 25 -45 mins) then i cum a couple of mins after her ( i ask her to do things , ex; spread it up , some kind of pose or a Bj ) and then either she makes me cum or i rub one out on her .

im just very resistant and i dont get tired fast , thats all (no bragging) .

i wont even mention how much time i went the longest , last time i did , nobody believed me (wheres my ex when you need her so she could agree and approve that i was right ).

hahah...i was just messing with you bro...i'm sure the ladies are very satisfied.
03-10-05, 10:26 AM
NeoSeminole

wow, must suck to be you Late_vamp. I guess you can't have quickies. Public sex must be a b*tch.
03-10-05, 11:52 AM
disasterjohn

for me.. my orgasm is last priority. As long as both of us are having fun and shes getting what she needs.. an orgasm(mine) isnt needed... an added bonus yes.. but not neccessary.
03-10-05, 12:00 PM
whaywardj

How interesting. I've the same attitude. Women have been known to become quite frustrated with me if I haven't cum. As if they're taking it personally. Or as if I'm supposed to shoot on command. Or something. I try to explain it really isn't necessary for me and, sometimes, that it isn't an exhaustion I care to recover from at the moment. That I'm perfectly happy and content to make love with them all they want without it. But it just doesn't seem to register with them. Or they won't accept it. I think it makes them feel as if I've taken away some of their power.
03-10-05, 12:08 PM
Asip4u

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Originally Posted by whaywardj

How interesting. I've the same attitude. Women have been known to become quite frustrated with me if I haven't cum. As if they're taking it personally. Or as if I'm supposed to shoot on command. Or something. I try to explain it really isn't necessary for me and, sometimes, that it isn't an exhaustion I care to recover from at the moment. That I'm perfectly happy and content to make love with them all they want without it. But it just doesn't seem to register with them. Or they won't accept it. I think it makes them feel as if I've taken away some of their power.

I know what you mean my friend..It's like you said..."as if Im supposed to shoot on command"...You have to do everything so perfectly, otherwise it's never quite good enough. Can't live with them, can't live without them.
03-10-05, 01:12 PM
misombra

Quote:

Originally Posted by whaywardj

How interesting. I've the same attitude. Women have been known to become quite frustrated with me if I haven't cum. As if they're taking it personally. Or as if I'm supposed to shoot on command. Or something. I try to explain it really isn't necessary for me and, sometimes, that it isn't an exhaustion I care to recover from at the moment. That I'm perfectly happy and content to make love with them all they want without it. But it just doesn't seem to register with them. Or they won't accept it. I think it makes them feel as if I've taken away some of their power.

i wouldn't be offended.
03-10-05, 01:39 PM
whaywardj

Maybe that's because you're ALL woman, and not just half-way there. Or less. Seriously.
05-10-05, 05:08 AM
gHEXjt

Quote:

Originally Posted by charliebrown32

she either has a small hole

he has a big tool

or the football game is about to start and that is more fun than sex with you

why do women take so long to orgasm?

cause women only get pleasure from watching men suffur. sex is fun for us. women hate that

LOL! So true, so true...Although, guys, if you want it to take longer, just turn on the tv while your doing it, let her be on top, and just watch the game then. She'll be doing all the work, you'll last longer cause you're watching sports instead, and she's getting off!
15-10-05, 10:50 PM
celerystalksme

i can shoot on command...no joke...

if you need, i can be done in 2 minutes...if you want, i can last upto 30-40 minutes. haven't been able to make it past an hour like some of these other fellows...but i sorta can shoot on command within 2-40 minutes...
15-10-05, 11:13 PM
SumGuyinFL

guys can go fast if its been a long time, if theyre inexperienced, if they just dont care lol, if its just one of those times it feels unbelievable - which the girl usu just feels awesome she did it and doesnt care, oh and if theyre nervous(prob the biggest one I would think). its nice to have 15-20min quickies everynow and then, and if the girl can get off quickly then a 5-10min adventure is awesome. Its nice to show them you can go for 2hours and up just so they cant biatch or know you can...but IMO that shlt gets kind of old...unless ur drunk ;) .

IMO its more important that the two of you can connect during the experience and then each leave satisfied - which is the bottom line. (whether the guy gets off or not)

haha a few of you mentioned the girl taking forever - shes not ready personally to experience it, not focusing, tired as hell, or you just dont know what ur doing

girls work diff in that they need to be able to experience orgasm on their own before they can mentally/physically let themselves go with their partner. If they cant get themselves off then they wont really know how to let you get them off.

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