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    Regretting break up

    Hey!
    So i've been together with this girl that i met last summer and because of my studies abroad we decided to try out the long distance relationship. We've been together for about 8 months. Everything was going well, we used to have long talks joke alot, talk about random stuff and the spark never went out we talked several times for 8 months. Of course we've had our ups and downs but we just jumped back into the relationship stronger than before. But even with all of this i knew deep down me and her aren't meant to be, we are to different from eachother but we still made it work this long. Until recently i've started feeling uneasy about the relationship and anxious because of this. So after alot of thinking i decided to end the relationship. I've purposedly distanced myself from her to think things through and i felt that she started getting worried. So i called her and told her the truth about how i feel and told her it's for the best to end it. This was two days ago. Eventhough i know i 100% did the right thing for both of us by ending it i still feel regret now. I miss her so much it hurts and i'ts distracting me from the thesis that i'm working on because it's my last year in university. Like i said i feel regret for breaking up with her even if i know it's the best thing, is this normal? will it pass? I can't even build the strenght to remove her from my facebook or instagram.

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    It will take sometime to rehab from the habit of having her in your life. Do your best to concentrate on your thesis and consciously change the subject back to your studies or things that you enjoy doing when she pops into your mind.

    You know it's for the best to do what you did so accept that whole heartedly and muster on.

    Do yourself a favor and don't be creeping her facebook or anyother social media sites. Doing that won't help you in the least to get to the stage of indifference to her.
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wakeup View Post
    It will take sometime to rehab from the habit of having her in your life. Do your best to concentrate on your thesis and consciously change the subject back to your studies or things that you enjoy doing when she pops into your mind.

    You know it's for the best to do what you did so accept that whole heartedly and muster on.

    Do yourself a favor and don't be creeping her facebook or anyother social media sites. Doing that won't help you in the least to get to the stage of indifference to her.
    I know you're completely right. But i just need to vent you know. I can't be around family because they're in another country, the friends i have here i'm not that close to them inorder to share my feelings with. When i'm at university i can get distracted with work. But it's the nights and holidays when i'm home alone that kills me when all these thoughts flow around in my head and there is no off button.

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