too weak to stop..

[amandaa]

hey...i have a group a friends. Tom is in that circle. But there is a one thing why this is so messed up. I like him more than a friend , but i do not want to. We had a past, telling we like each other, kissing, having fun ,but not as a couple. More like friends with benefits, but without sex. During that of course i kinda fell in love with him even more and that killed me. I knew i could find so much better for me , someone who treats me right and loves very much, because Tom was too lazy and immature to do all that. So some time passed i met another guy, he would take me on date, try to surprise me an all that. Once he kissed me ,touched more like a boyfriend, but i was disgusted and that felt wrong.I was thinking about Tom ,he was all the time on my mind..And that sucks ,because every time i meet someone ,i cant feel the same what i feel with Tom. Now he is my friend ,we would hang out and everything .I feel that he still likes me, sometimes wants to kiss me. But i said to myself that it will never happen again in romantic way even though i wanted to.So can you tell me how i can get over him, because all i want to do is just to make him jealous....

[basilandthyme]

You need to stop hanging out with Tom. You won't get over this infatuation while you're feeding it everyday.

Also, him not treating you like a girlfriend and not loving you very much isn't because he's lazy and immature. It's because he doesn't want you as a girlfriend.