We were sex buddies before, and she was really in love with me, like really much. I wasn't sure what i wanted then so she found a boyfriend but still continued to talk to me because she liked me. Needles to say i started thinking about a relationship with her too. They broke up, we ended up together the day after, but she didn't want a relationship with anyone because of having a lot of boyfriends this year, and basically went into depression multiple times and was sad and angry all the time. She has rejected every single boy that has tried talking to her for the last 3 months. In all that time we talked every day, but she didn't want to go on dates with me or even make out, though she was talking about a relationship in the future and stuff that regular friends don't talk about. We are still talking, hanging out all day, basically acting like a boyfriend and a girlfriend but we are not. Sometimes she gives me signs she wants to be with me, sometimes not, goes hot and cold. The thing is she wants to Skype ALL day and gets mad when i can't and gets really needy. Like literally, she would say: I'll take a bath and call you, and we would talk for an hour or so and then ill go eat and she will call again etc., but i can't keep up with it the whole day. When i watch football she would say: Is football more important than me? Don't watch, please, let's talk...
She said she is not in love with me since she had a boyfriend but she is trying to fall in love with me again now that she sees me in college everyday, and wants to be with me but not now since she is sick of relationships and just wants some peace. This friday she told me when she is going out and maybe we will make out, but she didn't want to make out, she told me: It's not that i don't want to, it's just, i don't know why, i still can't, basically was really indecisive and she rejected all other boys that tried something with her that night... But 3 weeks ago she ended up with one of her friends and i got annoyed because of all the rejections i was getting and now she ends up with him (only made out). So we didn't make out, and i told her that day that i am no longer in love with her because of all the rejections i have been getting these past 3 months, and i won't fall back in love unless this starts going some other way then friendship.
I am stuck as to what i should do to move things a bit forward and get her to fall for me. Is it good to Skype all the time with her? (Spending time together can be good). I know she likes me a lot and i am more special than any other boy to her, and she starts to miss me when we don't talk, but we are still only friends (maybe not regular friends since she does want to make out with me and even have sex) and it's starting to annoy me a bit. I sometimes get a feeling that she is afraid of losing me as a friend so she is giving me all this false hope while trying to make up her mind, but i doubt that since she touches me a lot and gets really flustered when i am beside her, she can't even sit near me because she can't concentrate on class since she always has the need to touch me. It bothers me that she still rejects every date request from me with some bullshit excuse and i am not going to call her on a date again because of that.



