Help!!!! Confused

[confused1123]

ok theres this girl i really like and ive known her for about 6 months. we used to have alot of fun together, but now i feel almost 'bored'. part of me doesnt want to end this. and part of me says 'screw it' I have no idea what to do help!!!!!!!!!

[confused1123]

hello..anyone??

[Pears]

Are you dating her? Is she your girlfriend?

If you are dating her and this is 6 months later, then it is normal that the excitement dies down. The beginning of relationships are usually exciting because the couple has many things to talk about. They get to know each other; know their habits, their hobbies, and their favorite things. After you know someone so well, there is not much else to talk about that's exciting besides new things that are happening in your daily life. Maybe you need to spice things up a little. Take her out somewhere new. Start a new hobby together. Doing new things will give you stuff to talk about with her and bring back some fun.

Why do you say "screw it"? Are there any other problems besides you being bored?

[Rosebud]

If your bored and you still like this girl, why don't you try to spice it up with new things? If not, and your not interested in her anymore then move on!

[clynn]

Why? Do you do the same things all the time?

Are you spending too much time together?

Have you not done some of your own individual fun time activities?

You can't expect one person to be everything to you, you know!