Love can drive you crazy!

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Oh yeah... we would say "We're not confident, just conceited" or something along those lines.

I'm guessing it was "We're not cocky we're confident"

[xO Lanna]

No, it was what I said. Let me get something straight. This is an internet forum. This is me expressing me emotions and posting it for all to read. NOT me in high school being a b*&^h. So if you can miraculously tell if I am mean on the internet then wow you must be a real damn good judge of character. And I appreciate it. I am NOT trying to be a bad person in real life. It's just all I've heard from people my whole life. If I were to end it with teacher then I have my family and a handful of friends. I also work at a tanning salon so all my employees are constantly trying to hang out r do promotions. Me trying to find friends is not an issue. What is an issue are my emotions. NOT my confidence or cokyness. whatever. SO PEOPLE please tyr and STICK to the issues. I don't run around and tell people how hot I am so seriously get over it. Everyone freaked out because I said I'm hot once. IT'S THE END OF THE WORLD OMG. I laugh my freaking a%$ off to some of the bs I'm reading. "Oh guys won't like you if you say your hot." I've NEVER ever NEVERRRRRRRRR had ANY problems with guys so stfu. I came here to talk about my BOYFRIEND not my freaking cockyness, my dad, or my exfriends. God damn.

[blackzj52]

wow......
u r quiet a piece of work.
ur coming on here and asking for our help. then when we tell you things you tell us to stfu and get over stuff. were trying to help you.
no drop this ****ing wall of urs and be vulnerable for once in ur life and let us actually help you.
you cant go around life trying to be somebody ur not or acting in a certain way

[xO Lanna]

O M G. This is how you guys help people? In that case I don't want it. i'm just sick of hearing that I am conceited and other things that aren't relevant to my situation. ESPECIALLY because I'm NOT even conceited.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

O M G. This is how you guys help people? In that case I don't want it. i'm just sick of hearing that I am conceited and other things that aren't relevant to my situation. ESPECIALLY because I'm NOT even conceited.

I am cocky and you know what, I don't really care.

Riiiight....

[xO Lanna]

What is this a court case? Ar you going to pull out the bible and ask me to swear to tell the truth? I'm not conceited. Yeah I might be cocky but not with my looks. Just with my whole being. I'm cocky in the way that I'm bold. I know what I have and not just when it comes to looks. I am extremely successful. I am NOT conceited though. I don't run around shooting how cute I am.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Are you on your period? Cuz you're being a total bitch for no reason. Which is actually not surprising cuz you bitch cuz you dont get a glass of water from your boyfriend. I doubt you act this way with your boyfriend else he woulda left. But if you do, he must be desperate. Cut the attitude Ms. Thang, cuz this bitch could be ten times worst than you'd ever be once ****ed with.

[bluesummer]

Tell me you're 'extremely successful' in ten years when you have an education and a real job. Right now you're just a kid out of high school. You'll learn quickly that what you did in high school doesn't mean jack shit in the real world. But I digress......

This is the way I see it. I'm not giving you relationship advice, because I don't see a relationship here. I see an immature man taking advantage of the vulnerable and not entirely developed emotions and rationale of a teenager. Proof? You're crying because you love him TOOOO much and because he doesn't get you a glass of water. Think he does that over you? Nope.

I have a real problem with people who are supposed to be mentors and persons of trust taking advantage of people they are supposed to give the mentorism and guidance to. It's a violation of their profession, IMO. Which to me, makes your 'bf' a scumbag, and quite frankly, if he were in my group of friends, he'd no longer be a friend. I don't like people that need to get their ego off by taking down easy prey (by that, I mean drunk people at the bar, teenagers, emotionally vulnerable persons, etc etc). I don't care if you're graduated or not, it doesn't mean you were magically bestowed with a heaping help of maturity and worldliness the minute you walked out the high school doors. Here's to learning the hard way.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Bluesummer, I couldnt word it better myself, cuz all I'd tell this chick is a shitload of badwords causing me to be thrown out of Love Forum.

[xO Lanna]

I'm glad you're not posting anymore, because your words are USLESS. I came here for advise, not a comedy show. There is something that this forum isn't aware of. I hav a vascular malaformation on my tounge and all down my throat. Not one soul on this Earth that knows besides my family. I've never told a boyfriend or a friend. But I told him, i even showed him. He still was here for me. On our NY trip the whole purpose of it was because there is one doctor in the US that can treat it, and his practice is in NY. I have to get it removed or I will never be able to have children. That is another reason why I feel insecure about our relationship. He knows my only secret. But he wants to help me. So please stop saying he is using me or that he is just trying to boost his ego or he is desperate. He isn't. He loves me and I love him. It's more then just sex or just a two month thing. I may only be 18 years old but I know when something is real.

[bluesummer]

People that come in here receptive and positive, and open to suggestion (which can also mean constuctive criticism btw) are the ones that are going to benefit.

If you come in here acting like you're the shit and expecting everyone to tell you want you want to hear, well then, it's not going to go well for you. My words are useless because it's not what you want to hear. Sorry princess. That's life.

You're missing the big picture here: your relationship is not healthy. Realize that. Then understand the root of where people's responses are coming from.

[xO Lanna]

I came here with an open mind but everyone is so damn negative. I got completely turned off.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

xO Lanna, when you both break up which I suspect to be soon, I suggest you dont come on here and tell us. You WILL be the laughing stock of Love Forum because you act like a know it all at 18 years old.

[bluesummer]

I just don't understand what you want people to tell you. You want us to tell you that seeing this guy is great, and good for you?

I CAN'T in good conscience do that. I'm almost your bf's age, so I see it through someone's his age's eyes, and I KNOW it's not healthy. Do you get where I'm coming from? I remember being 18 too, and how EASY it was to fall for someone, and how deeply. That is why I know how vulnerable someone your age IS.

Like I said, in my age group, it would be extremely, extremely frowned upon for someone in my social circle to date someone your age, even more so if they were a former student or someone under their guidance. It's disturbing to me. I know you're in love with this guy, but my problem is with him, and his way of thinking. It's just not normal.

[snoz]

haha I think I perceived this allll wrong.

Well this was my first impression Lanna, you have insecurities but you obviously know what it takes to be 'superficially' successful. You admit to the fact you've been conditioned to say the least to think and behave that way and it really is a shame. You're quick to defend yourself which I overlooked but it is the issue as to why you're getting such negative replies.

Just caught up on your other posts actually and I don't know ay. The only way I can make sense of things is you actually believe the world revolves around these material possessions and a sweet face. I can't help but agree with Bluesummer here in saying he's probably just using you as you are the emotional wreck you admit to, probably for the sex and you just became his trophy

Call me crazy but I just believed perhaps inside you there is that same smarts you have and the sensibility to read between the lines of some of these harsh replies. We're not taking a piss at you because your super hot and super successful we're merely pointing out the fact you probably have some issues stemming from BEING super hot and super successful in your own mind.

Write down exactly what you love about him. Have a long decent think about it. I mean you're starting to sound like someone who's holding on to nothing for no real reason 'just because'. And this is not to offend you but perhaps get some therapy. Get over the underlying issue here first (which is you) then you can move forward from there. You'd be doing yourself a really big favour, and if he does indeed love you, you'd be doing him a favour too and quite possibly salvage whatever relationship you have with him.

I think the last genuine advice I can give you is grow up. You're not a bad apple and I still believe that you just need to change that attitude of yours.

edit: no idea what happened before but yes lol nevermind