Regions Bank robbery - very worried about...

[nov13]

My girlfriend of year and a half and I broke up two months ago and I haven't heard from her since.
She used to work for Regions bank as a teller at the time when we broke up, I don't know if she still does.
Yesterday I heard on the news that a bank in that part of the city where she lives got robbed and I'm really worried about her.
I don't know which Regions bank she worked at though, cause she had recently started working there before we broke up.
All I wanna know is that she is ok, but I can't call her. Just a some history so you understand why:

We had a very unusual and bad breakup. Lots of hurtful things were said and more so on her part. The reason why
I said unsusual is because she left and didn't outright say that she is ending it although to me it's almost certain cause she was hinting it left and right.
During the fight she said she "wasn't happy with me". It wasn't like I was having the time of my life either. She also said that
if we broke up "she'd miss me, but she'd feel so releaved" She knew that if she only had hinted on us breaking up, that I would
give it to her in a second - I don't believe in being with someone who doesn't want to be with you, or isn't sure about it. Although, during the beginning of the fight
when she was saying that she wasn't happy with me and I said I wasn't happy either, but I didn't want to be the one to end it (because
I didn't want to wonder if I had messed up something that could've been real and at one point felt so real). To which she said, "you wan't me to be
the man to do it?" (to end the relationship). Which made me so mad. All she needed to say is "I want to break up", and that would be the end of it and not beat around the bush. Basically I think she knew she could easily provoke me with that into breaking up and I think that's what she did. After she left I wrote her an email in which I told her
that I don't want to be with a person who when they get angry don't care about the relationship and me, and say things that are very harmful to the future of the relationship.
And that if she'd feel releived not being with me it's over. I told her that I never whanted to see her again, and to never come by or call me again. I was really angry when I said that and after a few days, I felt like I shouldn't have written that email. All I know is she gave up on us, not me. So I have a clear conscience about that.

I loved her very much, I never got to tell her that because I wated to wait for the right time and we'd constantly fight. I only told her I loved her.

She trully doesn't realize how much she lost when she left me.

It's very strange though when you find out how wrong you were about something that felt so right. In the very beggining of our relationship, I don't know how it came about, but a thought came into my head "I'm gonna marry this girl" it was actually more of a "You are gonna marry this girl". I was like what? I was shocked, because it wasn't me saying that. It was so weird. I somehow knew I was going to marry her. That was at the time when I wanted nothing to do with a relationship, let alone a marrage and I had no feelings for her what so ever. At that point all I thought we could be is friends.
When we were together, unusual things would happen - "magical" things for a lack of a better word or "out of the ordinary". We'd watch tv and I would ask a question and the person on the tv would respond to my question exactly as if I had asked them...it was so funny. It happened several times and only when we were together, it made us laugh so hard every time. One time we were at the movies and a couple in the film were getting intimate, and it kept going on and I was like: "How long is this gonna take" and right after I said that, the girl in the film said: "As long as it takes". We couldn't stop laughing it was so funny. Or when one time we had a fight and she left the room and was in the other room. I sat there for quite a while and then I ran out to go to her and at the exact same moment she was coming to see me - we almost bumped into eachother. You'd have to experience it to understand. Or she would say exactly what I was thinking, and vice versa. Or (about a year into the relationship) when we were at a wedding and it was a circle of people I knew, none that she knew, so I was introdicing her to some of the people I knew very quickly, we weren't chatting or anything, and a husband of a woman I know, said: "You look like you belong together". It was just so unusual for the situation. To me it seemed like one doesn't usually say that especially in the brief time that I intoduced her to them. Things like that would happen when we were together, it's like things out of this world would happen when our souls met, it's like that energy would cause a rip in the space and time continuum and make things happen that ordinariliy wouldn't.

During the relationship she somehow figured out my password and was snooping in my email.
When I found out I was shocked and kind of mad, but I told her I won't change my password and that I wanted to be able to trust her that she won't look at my email.
About a week after our break up, I changed my email password and that same day I got an email from my email admin that someone had tried to get my password and that someone's email address was her email address - so she tried to get into my email and since I had changed my password she couldn't get in and requested that they send her my password to her email, hence I got the admin email.

After about 20 days since the break up (during which I hadn't heard from her) I emailed her with a copy of the email that was sent to me from my email service admin showing she'd tried to get into my email. And asked her why she was trying to look at my emails when she's doesn't care about the relationship and she is the one that ended it. And that I only gave her what she wanted since she was bluntly hinting left and right that she wanted to break up. I also told her that I didn't want to end things on a bad note (I really hate ending things with people badly that is just so not right.), and that she left without saying anything and that I didn't want to wonder if she ever
broke it off or not, that I needed to hear it from her so we can both move on with our lives. (During the relationship I had told her that if we both broke it off then it's trully over, but if I broke it off, but she still was in the relationship, then we're not broken up). So that's why I need to hear those words from her - I needed to know for sure if she had ended it. I wrote her in my last email also to bring me my things back when we meet or to leave them at my door when I'm not there if she didn't want to see me. I told her if she didn't want to see me to call me, but that I had to hear it from her. I called her on her cell phone and left a message that I had emailed her. So she hasn't responed to that email so I'm guessing she didn't want to see me anymore or talk to me. I'm certain she got the messages. She always has before. I don't know why she didn't at least give me my things back if she doesn't want to see me.

So, I'm so worried about her, but I can't call her, and if I call the bank and it turns out to be her bank that got robbed I know they'll tell her that I called. The reason I can't call her is because I don't want to make her uncomfortable if she doesn't want to see me. She had a bad experience with her dad stalking her mom when they divorced, so I don't want her to feel like that towards me. I try to avoid going places where she'd be even when I would normally go there (before our break up). like at one point, I needed to buy an herb. And they told me that that store where we'd met (I used to work there, long story) and where her mom's best friend works would have that herb and that's the only store of that kind in the city and I wouldn't go because of the above mentioned reason. I wish I could go anywhere without wondering if I'm gonna run into her and make her unconfortable. That's another reason why I like to end things on good terms, so if not being friends at least if you see that person on the street you can smile at them and say hi, and feel comfortable that there is no bad feelings between you.

I just want to know that she is ok. All I want her to do is to email me or text me on my cell "I'm ok" that's all, and if she never wants to talk to me again that's fine, but I'm really worried about her. Or if someone else would tell me that's she's ok, that's fine too, but we don't have any mutual friends.
I really wish I hadn't seen the news, I barely watch tv, how the hell did that news come up just as I was passing by the tv...I wasn't even watching it!

[Gribble]

If anyone was harmed it would have been reported. The vast majority of bank robberies involve a guy handing a teller a note demanding cash. That's it. No guns waved around. No verbal threats. No hostile takeover. Again, if anything like that happened it would probably be reported somewhere. In all likelihood even if she was at the bank at the time it was robbed she didn't even realize they were being robbed until the thief left the premises.

[lesa]

Sorry I only read your first paragraph but I have been in your situation.

I didn't call but I did text.

If she wanted you to know she would contact you. If she is injuried or dead then the television news will "contact" you.

Having been in this situation a few times before and after breakup, I can tell you that the probability of something physically happening to her at a bank is low.

[vashti]

I was robbed when I worked at a bank. It happened exactly as Gribble said, except the guy had a gun in his waistband. No one knew I was getting robbed until the guy was gone.