....buzz kill

[Bo]

so i guess my guy and i just aren't working out, he's always just going to be an inconsiderate ass until he grows up.

Anyway but i met this new guy who has been in my class. And well we went on a kinda/sorta date today, it was really sweet (went to starbucks then up to the waterfront, and back to his place for a bit). He's turning 22 soon, and leaving next fall for his 4th year of college (kinda disappointing). My friends say there's only one thing a 22 yr old guy would want to do with an 18 yr old girl. I'm not looking for anything serious though, just to have fun. We ended up kissing but i told him i didn't want to sex yet....and he was ok with that and wants to see me again. What do u all think about it?
I haven't dated in so long, it's a bit strange being out with some other guy, but i think i like it...i'm not very good at dating, been almost 3 years..help meee

[Illusional]

what do you need help with?? you already seem like you know what you want from this guy.

raverboy

[Bo]

what do you need help with?? you already seem like you know what you want from this guy.

raverboy

what do u think about the age gap though? The point is i really don't even want to waste my time if he just wants to get in my pants

[Illusional]

what do u think about the age gap though? The point is i really don't even want to waste my time if he just wants to get in my pants

well with all this information, it would make your position seem very easy. you already know that he's leaving, so why would he bother to get to know you unless he just wants sex right?? possibly..it's what i would be thinking.

however, on the other hand, maybe he's genuine..

if you're willing to take a risk, then make him wait until he comes back before you give it up. guys know how to be smooth talkers until they get what they want.

an age gap doesn't mean everything, i was 21 when i dated a 17 year old, and i felt that she was too young at the time. i didn't even bother trying to get into her pants, i just ended the relationship.

raverboy