i met this guy during a thanksgiving of my classmate last march...i was just having my vacation in my hometown that time...i cant say that i came home because of him, but i'm back here in our town, i ket hearing bad things about him, that he's such an addict or whatever, but i think there's a chance for him to change, i guess...
after 3 days of hanging out,we're an item already, i mean we agreed to start a relationship....
after a week, i went back to laguna which is miles away from our hometown, so it means we have to endure being apart....
after a month, he forgot our very first monthsary , i was so disappointed because I've been waiting for his call...i broke up with him cause i feel that he rili dont care about me...after a day, he texted me , asking for an apology...
we're an item again now but i dont know if he is serious about me....
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14-05-09, 09:54 PM #1
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is he serious or not?
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14-05-09, 10:01 PM #2
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You broke up with him because he forgot a "monthsary" thats absolutely pathetic, he agreed to start a relationship with you yes? that would be a sign hes serious make him work for you, dont text him first in the day let him make the first move, let him call you, let him come and visit you.
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14-05-09, 10:19 PM #3
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yeah, it sounds pathetic but i want him to remember our first month coz for me that's so important...but he forgot it, that's why i'm thinking maybe i'm just an option to him and he got a lot of choices...
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Oh no! Doh! Even if you guys don't start of seriously, the relationship may develop deeper in the long run. Breaking up with him during the early stage of relationship just because he forgot about your monthsary is a shallow reason, and he might view it the same also.
Don't give him the reason of not taking you seriously. Enjoy your relationship with him, get to know him deeper. Have fun!
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i think he's not....he's just making fun of you, dont want to sound mean but i just want you to wake up....
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Im glad im not your bf
Originally Posted by Ariadne Cuares
Hell.....I cant even remember my girls nameRelationships are never a threat, cause I'll Erase the history and act like we never met
--Joe Budden
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15-05-09, 02:43 AM #7
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Wtf is a monthsary?
Seriously.
Stop dating until you grow up.
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15-05-09, 05:40 AM #8
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This is a high maintainance one...mm
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15-05-09, 05:43 AM #9
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hee hee, men have difficulty remembering their own birthdays
mo'Dajvo' pa'wIjDaq je narghpu' He'So'bogh SajlIj
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15-05-09, 05:43 AM #10
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or as i call them, plain out stupid Originally Posted by megaton2002
mo'Dajvo' pa'wIjDaq je narghpu' He'So'bogh SajlIj
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15-05-09, 06:56 AM #11
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You want serious way too soon. One month is nothing.
My ex used to program our "month anniversary" into his phone so each month he would call me and be like "happy anniversary!" but I never asked him to, and often I forgot month anniversary's (this was a high school relationship btw)
Until his phone got water damage, and he had to come clean about what he was doing. Not that I cared, I thought it was cool that he put that kind of weird effort into something I considered small. But breaking up with him over something like that is very high maintenance. Did you expect a gift and flowers too?Sometimes I worry about being a success in a mediocre world
-Lily Tomlin
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15-05-09, 07:01 AM #12
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i think the best way to handle your needs are to think about what you would expect from a gal friend in relation to friendship and whats expected and apply it to your relationship with a guy, would you have had a problem if a close friend forgot to call you etc? you are expecting too much. if he wants to call you then he will, if he shows you in other ways WHEN you are together face to face then why get so hung up on silliness like this..you are both new to each other, you can't possibly expect him to act like the men in hollywoood movies. it rarely happens in real life. just take it for what it is a new person in your life and enjoy the time you have together, afterall he could say the same about you, do you send him flowers? of course not, it's too soon for all that. effort should be realistic and 50/50
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15-05-09, 07:32 AM #13
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You shouldn't of dumped him just because he missed your one month anni. Thats really immature. He obviously does care about you if he went out with you and one month is nothing. If he still wants to be with you and apologised when you dumped him he obviously IS serious, and don't listen to hearsay.
