Sorry for the bad Englisch... still learning but need some help and advice please...

[James Dean]

My English is not very well... And I used a translator but her the story goes..
what if...

You did not see your girlfriend for 8 days because she went too a festival.

she's back from the festival, but very very tired with a heatstroke and don't feel right.

She no longer kissing and hugging you as much as before. And she not showing much interest as before.

She sleeps with you, telling you that she don't want too have sex with you cause she is thinking about her ex she met on the festival.

That its respect less if she would have sex with me now.

The same day I dump her on the telephone.
4 hours later I feel like made a mistake.

You tell her you were too impulsive and still love her.
And that she can think about it too come back.

After 2 days she asks you why you weren't on her School Distribution?

You tell her you forgot and will eat a ice scream with her too celibate

And that every thing's that's goes wrong will be better from now.

she tell you there's no need for it.
And that she would break up anyway if I did not.

The reason according to her is because
You never been there for her, when she needed you.
You never opens up and talks to her
and never talk about you're emotions.
And always if the relationship goes less you immediately want too break up.

She tell you she wants too stay friends and still think you're "Nice"
I tell her I don't want to be friends, cause I feel sexual attracted too her and I don't want too loss her as my girlfriend.

She tells you that you're weak and know now that you mean nothing too her as a friend. That a relationship is more than only sex and fun. not only lovers... but friends too.

That she felt you don't know how a relationship work.
And she has good contact with her ex again and that's her true love.

I wished her good luck with her ex boy friend and a nice life.

And I told her its kind of sad she blame me for all those things just too be with her ex again.
She told my that's not true

Than she tells me, that she thinks I am sad cause I cant be friends with her if I cant have sex with her. After that she blocks you on Messenger.

After 2 months no contact I hear from a friend she doesn't has a relationship with her ex boyfriend (probably my ex just was lying because she was mad I dumped her)

She was right with the following things:

Almost never opens up and talks to her
Did not been there for her when she needed me.
I did not talk much about my emotions
I Wanted too break up a few times when relationship goes less but I never did.
Did not show many times how much I loves her.


I know I made allot of mistakes but I still love her and want her back... I had no contact for 2 months.

How Too get her back If you told her you don't want contact with her any more?

[Gigabitch]

I agree with you that those were just excuses for her to be with her ex. Why would you want her back? She treated you badly.

[James Dean]

Maybe it was just a lie... because she was mad I dumped her.
She is still single as far I know.

Been on 2 months no contact but still love her..