crazy times

[ben76]

first met about 8 weeks ago, since then its been completely crazy..

she first of all came down for a date and ended up staying with me for a couple of days and we had a great time, she is a very pretty clever girl from Reading who is doing some post degree law qualification and it was great.. When she went back my Landlord/good friend passed away so I was feeling pretty down and she said she was having a difficult home life so I suggested she could stay for a while..

Since then it has been incredibly difficult she physically attacks me for smoking and drinking and I don't do that much.. She is impossible to communicate with on a human level and completely wet behind the ears.. I think she has manic depression..

I'm not by any means perfect but the way Renata treated me for the odd drink and smoke was abominable, with verbal and physical attacks..

I had to call the police one night in case i hurt her whilst trying to restrain her, but did not give them any details in order not to damage her career..

I am 33 years of age and in that time I have known people to suffer with manic depression/bipolar and recognise the signs..

I also spoke to a psychologist friend of mine and explained my encounter with Renata and he confirmed it sounded like bipolar but could not make a formal diagnosis because he has never met her but said she should seek help..

It certainly explains her mood swings bursts of energy (running and walking) delusions of grandeur and lows that she gets..

whatever happens I just want her to be safe.. I criticised her at times. I also had to throw her off me and chuck her out of my bedroom when she was attacking me (biting, scratching, spitting trying to punch my testicles) and I also kicked her up the bum when I was drunk.. But would never dream of hitting anyone let alone her..

Im sooo concerned that because of this she may meet someone whom isn't so understanding and could end up in a violent relationship and that would break my heart..

she is now saying she hates me but still contacts me regulary

I like her for some reason and want her back pls help

[Gigabitch]

Bipolar swings don't flip on and off like a light switch. I think she's just a freaking psycho.

How old is this person?

[ben76]

she is 24 I just don't understand her...

She says her mother is schizophrenic ...

[xxazurexx]

You sound a well suited couple.
She's a Psycho and you can't be a full shilling, if you want this Psycho back!

[ben76]

thanks for that but it isn't as black and white as it seems

She can be wonderful

[xxazurexx]

thanks for that but it isn't as black and white as it seems

She can be wonderful

So it sounds.....

[Gigabitch]

Is this your first Drama Queen? Maybe you haven't learned that lesson yet. Here's the Cliff's Notes version: Avoid Drama Queens. They suck.

[ben76]

yep kind of she is rather immature too..

Blames me for everything

[xxazurexx]

I'm unsure what you want people to say or are expecting people to say?

I could perhaps understand it, if this was some relationship turned 'toxic' that you are trying to escape - but you are wanting back in it!!!!

That doesn't make sense to 'normal' people....???