time apart from gf

[reapish]

hey guys. so about a week ago my girlfriend said she needed time alone for awhile..its already been a week with no contact and im worried about what shes doing etc. when is it a right time to msg her? we've been together for 4 years and we're both 20. any ideas what i should do? i still love her a lot..she says she's not seeing anyone right now atm either so it can't be that.

[Cloud206]

I think no,don't contact her,u may seem desperate.Take in consideration that she might have found out that she doesn't love you the same,that she changed on the way.

[reapish]

but if she doesn't love me the same and is changing..when is she going to let me know that we can't be together. waiting is harder than i thought..but i need to know

[Alvy]

Her 'time apart' method is pretty much her way of breaking up with you. Since she's too much of a coward to simply say 'I don't feel the same way about you anymore', she does the next best thing and breaks off contact with you slowly while leaving you hanging. Plus, she's 20, most girls that age are more interested in drinking and boning some stranger than settling down or building a solid foundation for their future. Fortunately, you're 20 as well. Plenty of years left in front of you. Plenty of time for other relationships too.