What does he mean right now? Advice please

[williesarus]

I just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday. I wrote a long letter telling him how i felt and stuffs. I passed it to him. it's a letter that i told him to read, and burn it after reading. And at night, he sent me this text :

"Hey xxxx. I'm really sorry for everything. You deserve someone who treat you so much better. In fact, i want to tell you i admire you for being so strong and brave after everything i've put you through. I'm so sorry. And regarding the letter you gave to me, i won't read them but i will keep it. I don't have the courage to read what you wrote. But i will keep it with me forever. I'm really sorry. I will always remember you and i will never forget you. Take care."

I cried really badly upon reading it. And few hours ago, he told me that I should trust him no matter what as a friend. (because i thought that he is cheating on me) He said i don't want us to break up in such a bad state. So he ended the conversation by saying.. "So long!" Then he sent again and said... "No. I mean till next time.."

Does it mean that we still have hope? This is the 2nd time we broke up.

[stuckies]

hmm if you keep breaking up and getting back together..and nothing changes...what do you think it means

[devonbrown]

No, I don't think it means the relationship has a chance. I think he realized that what he was saying could have been interpreted as him threatening to harm himself and he wanted to reassure you that he wasn't going to do anything stupid.

I think he feels bad that you wound up not trusting him and he is feeling sentimental about your relationship and thinking about the good times and such. But it doesn't sound like you two are meant to be together. I would just grieve for the relationship and then move on stronger for your next romance.

Good luck.

[LdFilip]

No hope for next time...and his letter was so catchy,cos he realized what he has done to you...and to that last phrase,i think he meant it that until you meet as a friends.

..or if hes a cocky bastard,he was pointing on you,that you will come to him again...even bigger reason to not going back.

[williesarus]

we were chatting 5 minutes ago and he forget to attend a medical appointment and he was so shock that i could remember this appointment. he sounds really nice still. the previous time we broke up we didn't spoke for 2 months. he asked me to let him go and move on. but after that he wanted me back again... he said that he wanted to be alone for sometime. and he told me all about taurus. One fact about taurus is that Its hard for them to let go a person that left a huge impact in their lives.

[stuckies]

yeah that's what it must be - the sun and the moon and the stars.

Why are you talking with him after writing him a letter he can't be arsed to read?

[williesarus]

yeah that's what it must be - the sun and the moon and the stars.

Why are you talking with him after writing him a letter he can't be arsed to read?

what do you mean? :/

[stuckies]

when people start coming out with well it's because I'm a man that I cheated, it's because I'm a leo with moon rising in the 7th house I can't be with you now. It's an excuse. They're not taking responsibility for their actions.

[oldskool83]

breaking up and getting back together time and time again gets old and its not a solid fountation, id move on.

[LdFilip]

Its poor to hide behind some signs and stars and so...if he really loves you he wouldnt leave you...and i dont see any reason why he wouldnt leave you again since he done so twice...if he want to be alone for some time,he should tell tell and not to leave you...and he told you to let him go...

...do so,but for good