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    Relationship NOOB in need of guidance! :)

    Hey Everyone!

    I'm new to the forums and i'm looking for some GOOD advice. I've recently started University and have been given my first group project assignment. I have been drafted into a group of 8 where I am the only male! We have all only met one another on 3 ocassions and I have started taking a liking to one of the girls. I think she is trying to show me that she likes me too but I am an absolute NOOB when it comes to this sort of stuff! During our first meeting we carried out an ice breakers sort of game and I thought it was curious as to why she asked me my age very quickly. She seems to be quite shy and of the group I think I am the one she has spoken to the most, asking me quite a few questions about the project, as previously stated she seems to be shy and unfortunately for me so am I and it doesn't help that i'm the only guy of the group. Infact that may be an advantage(Less competition of sorts)lol!

    Soooo....

    Does anyone have any tips on how I could try and find out if she is remotely interested in me without making it obvious as to what i'm doing? A friend has told me to dive in and just ask her on a date to the cinema. Only having met her less than a week ago I feel that idea is way too soon. The same friend also told me to " test the waters " with flirtation, sounds easy but I have no clue of how i'd go about doing that lol and I don't know any flirty techniques that you'd use to start off. I don't have much self confidence due to lack of " Successful " relationships and having been rejected a lot has also played a part.


    Any sort of feedback is appreciated,

    Thanks!

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    Be obvious, there is nothing wrong with a woman knowing you're interested Ask her if she would like to get a coffee, or go out on a date with you. If it isn't too soon, then it's probably too late, just be casual and go with it.
    "All is fair in love and war." - Francis Edward Smedley

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    Quote Originally Posted by Daniel Rossiter View Post
    Hey Everyone!

    I'm new to the forums and i'm looking for some GOOD advice. I've recently started University and have been given my first group project assignment. I have been drafted into a group of 8 where I am the only male!
    what course is this... must be business school which tend to have more female..

    lol
    "Invest wisely and have money work hard for you"

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    yeah....guys have been asking girl for dates since the beginning of time. How else would you know if she wants to go out Ha!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by loveadmin View Post
    what course is this... must be business school which tend to have more female..

    lol
    Haha actually no! I'm studying Virology. Apparently we have the largest undergraduate class in the whole of Europe this year. The group assignment is for my Biology Lab class.

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