Is it me??

[phoenix123]

Lol, I feel like every time I post a question in here it's about the same guy...

Hey I'll try to keep this short and to the point...but really could use advice. Background info: Been dating for about 7 months and we are both 23

This guy I've been seeing asked me if I wanted to spend New Years Eve (tues) with him on Monday and I said I would head his way after work the next night. So Monday night we are talking and I've been in situations where I've been stuck places and couldn't leave.

So I said to him this might sound weird, I don't like feeling stuck anywhere and can't leave, I do plan to drink but to at least give me the option to sleep in my car lol. (Yes, I even put the lol). He totally misunderstood and freaked out telling me to that I'm not forced to see him and to hang out with my friends instead. So I said "So you don't want to spend it together anymore" and he said "Nope".

That was Monday night, and now we are in Friday and still not a word from him. Last text I sent was Tues evening saying how ridiculous it was and I was trying to make life easier for him a bit cause that way he didn't feel obligated to keep me in his house....Anyways....no word, WTF???

Anyone have any idea what the hell is going on? Or why he got soo angry over something that was partly a joke (I'm not really going to sleep in my car in Dec)?

Please help

[Wakeup]

Why would you even want to give him the time of day. He sounds like a wanker who called you up last minute for a new years eve date... pffft.

Surely you can do better then an immature twat who doesn't even have the sense to ask you what you mean before going off the deep end? Not to mention he gives you the silent treatment and bails on the last minute invite deal which to me is a "You'll-do-in-a-pinch" statement if I ever heard one. Next time some lame-0 does that to you (last min thingy) tell him you're busy and then be busy don't just pretend to be.

NEXT him ... He keeps coming in an out of your life. Block and delete him so that he can't keep doing that to you anymore. There are better men out there then him. Self-respect yourself, gurl.

[phoenix123]

Thank you so much! Everything you've said about this has been extremely helpful and logically makes a lot of sense. Thank you

[AnErin]

That guy is a little bitch.
I feel sorry for the lady who does end up dating him. He probably will be using her tampons more than she will.
I am glad you got away from him. If he does come crawling back, make one thing clear to him, tell him, "I have the pussy, therefore I make the rules".

[smackie9]

Maybe he acts the way he does because he finds you too high maintenance (his perspective). It's not working out obviously, so breakup with him.

[Wakeup]

If a man "finds you too high maintenance" because you expect to be respected and valued, then you are better off without him.