first time, mistake, second time?

[Rainbow85]

Over Christmas I went out with a guy and we hit it off. We texted but it stopped and when I contacted him he apologised for his lack of messages saying he had a lot on (i found out that it was to do with his ex and selling their house - he was going through a bad time)

Since then we have been in contact but I told him about something which happened two years ago...I had been on two dates with his friend who told me not to say anything. I didn't but once I realised this could potentially go somewhere I felt bad and told him everything. The guy I liked went a bit strange with me and stopped all contact.

Recently we've been in contact again and I explained that I wanted to be open and honest after realising I actually liked him. He was flattered but was giving off a strange vibe. He admitted that he doesn't like the situation with his mate but continued to flirt.

I realised soon after that he wouldnt want anything to happen...well that's what I thought.

Then I received a message on whats app 'ffu' I asked what are you on about and he said it was a mistake, he lent on his phone. I thought this is possible and thought nothing of it and we chatted for a bit.

Then I woke up to a missed call off him today. He called at 1.50 am. When I texted to say 'are you ok, I had a missed call' he said 'sorry it was a mistake'.

What is his game?

[smackie9]

I don't know why you would even waste you time on this flake. He already got weird on you because you went on a couple of dates with a buddy of his two bloody years ago! If this is the way he behaves, then you just dodged a bullet. Sounds like he is jealous and insecure. Who needs that? not you. So ditch this retard, he isn't worth the time to figure out his deal.

[Rainbow85]

I don't know why you would even waste you time on this flake. He already got weird on you because you went on a couple of dates with a buddy of his two bloody years ago! If this is the way he behaves, then you just dodged a bullet. Sounds like he is jealous and insecure. Who needs that? not you. So ditch this retard, he isn't worth the time to figure out his deal.

I agree, I think he is very insecure about it. He was very confident at the beginning but now I can sense a change in him since I told him. I suppose he's best to deal with his issues.

thanks