Don't know what to do

[Angel29]

I met a guy in March 2013 who I really like. He travels 50 miles each month for a night out. He has told me he likes me and shown the signs but I feel I get mixed signals. He claims he is shy. I hear from mutual friends he is interested and then others say he wants me in his life but isn't prepared to give up his lifestyle. I don't know what giving up a lifestyle means as it is important to have friends and hobbies unless he enjoys dating around is the lifestyle people are on about.

I have met many nice guys who can give me so much more who ask me to go out or dance with me. I don't know why I can't forget this guy, he has done nothing to woo me at all. He has the looks and on paper he is what I want but in person he seems socially awkward. I don't think I should wait any longer now as it is going nowhere. I just don't want to end up being someone who marries someone else but always has that other person in the back of my mind.

Anyone got any advice on this? I can't take this anymore.

[basilandthyme]

perhaps you could start by telling us why you are still with him