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    need some advice fast

    Girl at school who I was going to ask to formal is going with some other guy. She looks at me quite a bit out of the corner of her eye, walks past me at lunch to go somewhere (when she could just go straight there) and looks all nervous when i look at her and stuff. she's come out of her shell a bit and is a bit more confident now but seems to copy and try to be like one of her friends. What don you guys think. Also we don't really talk anymore because it's awkward idk. In English class she sneakily looks at me and constantly fixes her hair and even today i had my hands on my head and she walked past and let her hair run through my hand... I'm 17 male and she's 16 female. we've never been i a relationship

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    Yah, unfortunately females and males this age often look to their friends rather than inside their own hearts for their reactions to any given situation. I call it the 'pack syndrome'..
    If you really like this girl, approach her when her friend is not around; you'll have better luck talking to the real her.
    If unable to connect? well then, I advice holding out for someone with their very own personality.

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    If you really like yourself and don't want to get shredded then you must pay attention to this:

    {she} is going with some other guy.
    Stay away from girls who already have a boyfriend. You don't want to be that guy.

    If she's not actually his girlfriend then just ask her out to some other function. If she says yes then "yeah" if she says "no" then you can get on with your pursuit of someone who cares.
    Last edited by Wakeup; 31-07-14 at 01:47 AM.
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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    What advice do you need, you can't ask her to the formal because you already know she has a date and a boyfriend, so you can't date her at all unless she breaks up or she has some open dating policy at 16 that she dates more than one boy at a time.
    She is obviously attracted to you but not much good that does you unless they break up soon.

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    For someone "who needs advice fast" you've not even bothered to come back in and comment on what we fastly took the time to accommodate your need for speed.

    Where are you, "Arman?"
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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