Pros and Cons

[Charlie Boy II]

Look despite all this carry-on she really is a cool chick. I've known her for a couple of years remember.

[lesa]

I remember but women change once they get that d**k. Unless you are dating a prostitute she will put feeling into this "relationship".

With control, all will be well though.

[vashti]

Not to cast aspersions on CB's wiener, but I know many women who want to go south and get a good look at Mr. Happy before it gets anywhere near their coochie. You can go and brush your teeth if you don't like what you've put in your mouth. It's a lot harder to brush your vagina.

Eww. Maybe I am unusual, but no way would I put a penis in my mouth that I wouldn't want in my vagina. It would stimulate my gag reflex.

[lesa]

Eww. Maybe I am unusual, but no way would I put a penis in my mouth that I wouldn't want in my vagina. It would stimulate my gag reflex.

Hehe, that's the point. The vagina does not have that ability and gets all that nasty stuff. :vomits:

[Gigabitch]

I'm laughing, imagining someone gross enough to make even my vagina gag.

[Cain]

lol, that's what we are saying. We are simply responding to the thread. Maybe we should ignore?

Cain, we are saying the same as you but it looks like we are disagreeing because we are using a different perspective to come to the same conclusion.

Actually most if not all of us are in agreement.

It seems to me like most of you are telling him to avoid her. Why? She's giving him what he wants. So what if she has a little baggage? So what if she has loose ends? He's not going to marry her. He wants to f-ck her.

[lesa]

It seems to me like most of you are telling him to avoid her. Why? She's giving him what he wants. So what if she has a little baggage? So what if she has loose ends? He's not going to marry her. He wants to f-ck her.

Yes most are saying they would avoid her because she does not sound relationship material...not in this stage of her life.

Most also said that if he wants her for a sex toy then that's probably all she is looking for at this time and to not get too emotionally attached.

Most people are not going to encourage a man to sex up women. Most people can easily find a sex toy so the only advice would be to not get too emotionally attached (unless they enjoy drama and heartache) and to use protection...which I am sure is known unless they are in denial about what they really want.

Why do you feel he needs encouragement?

BTW, How's the PUA thing going? Are you finding quality women or just sex toys?

[Cain]

Yes most are saying they would avoid her because she does not sound relationship material...not in this stage of her life.

Most also said that if he wants her for a sex toy then that's probably all she is looking for at this time and to not get too emotionally attached.

Most people are not going to encourage a man to sex up women. Most people can easily find a sex toy so the only advice would be to not get too emotionally attached (unless they enjoy drama and heartache) and to use protection...which I am sure is known unless they are in denial about what they really want.

Why do you feel he needs encouragement?

I just thought it was odd that everyone was trying to tell him that she wasn't relationship material when he already said he wasn't looking for an actual relationship.

BTW, How's the PUA thing going? Are you finding quality women or just sex toys?

The goal wasn't about having my own harem. The goal was to simply learn about how attraction works. It's definitely interesting and I love reading about it.

I've stopped actively picking up women but I continue to read about it. There's a girl that I'm actually interested in and we'll see how that goes soon.

[lesa]

The goal wasn't about having my own harem. The goal was to simply learn about how attraction works. It's definitely interesting and I love reading about it.

I've stopped actively picking up women but I continue to read about it. There's a girl that I'm actually interested in and we'll see how that goes soon.

I'm curious to know more about how attraction works from the male perspective and what you studied but maybe that will come out in another time. I don't want to go off topic in this thread.

[lesa]

I just thought it was odd that everyone was trying to tell him that she wasn't relationship material when he already said he wasn't looking for an actual relationship.

She wants a relationship but it may not be a meaningful relationship because of conflict of interests. Someone is going to get hurt without communicating.

He is clear that he doesn't want a meaningful relationship but what about her?

[Charlie Boy II]

What conflict of interests?? And you've decided she wants a relationship now? Before you were saying she was just after sex...

you're quite negative Lesa. With that attitude why would anyone enter any kind of relationship with anyone.

[lesa]

What conflict of interests?? And you've decided she wants a relationship now? Before you were saying she was just after sex...

you're quite negative Lesa. With that attitude why would anyone enter any kind of relationship with anyone.

So you don't want a relationship with her? A sex-only relationship?

I'm not negative. I'm realistic. If you don't want to be then that is your decision.

People have their reasons for wanting any kind of relationship. If you desire them for something then it would behoove you to find out if that something is agreed upon or prepare for drama.

[IndiReloaded]

It seems to me like most of you are telling him to avoid her. Why? She's giving him what he wants. So what if she has a little baggage? So what if she has loose ends? He's not going to marry her. He wants to f-ck her.

I wasn't. I just thought he seemed to be getting a bit attached when he was upset by her blowing off their 1st couple tries to hookup. And there are some minor red flags in that regard, if so. If not, its all good. Carpe diem, CB.

[Charlie Boy II]

I just want the thing to develop organically.

I'm not being realistic? For somebody acting on only partial information you're awfully opinionated. And aside from an overriding negativity I'm still not really clear on what exactly your objections are.

Historically I have been a good judge of people and have a record of strong, healthy, fun relationships with great girls. I'm not attracted to drama or drestuctive women. If this gets messy I'll pull the plug. I don't think there's any need to be so skittish with it. I like the girl.

[lesa]

For somebody acting on only partial information you're awfully opinionated. And aside from an overriding negativity I'm still not really clear on what exactly your objections are.

I was caring as I would an offline friend who has asked for opinions. My apologizes.

All is well. Carpe diem.