Broke up.. but should we go for a planned trip together next?

[DaddysAngel]

take some advice from someone who has been around the block a time or two if he really loved you he would never ever dream of letting you go wound of the heart take time to heal he out enjoying himself y should you stay at home feeling sorry for ur self go out and hang out with your friend u will get over him about the trip it his money not your tell him to take the trip and stuff it u will find some one who can live without u till then enjoy life dont let it eat u

[LosTnLoveD]

that's y i dunno wat exactly is on his mind. i thought wen we broke up then there wouldn't be any chances we would meet but instead he asked me to go for the trip along.
i dunno if he is toying around with me.. or making me feel like a fool at the end of the day..

[DaddysAngel]

i dont know him but it sound like he is messing with your mind. if u d get along with his parents or the other people going on the trip, i sure u would b uncomfortable. not to mention your ex probaly would be checking out other girls 2.u dont need to do that to your self. i know how u feel now my gf for many year found some guy on line and is think about leavin me for him. like i said heartachea take some time to heal. u can try to stop call him txting him ect earase his name off ur cell and comp. give away put away or just throw away all his stuff. then invite some friend over and have a wild party. just be thankful he doesn't live with u it makes it alot harder. i hope this helps if i can help anymore please let me know

[LosTnLoveD]

thanks lots everyone. it is very hard to let go. i still think about him everyday now. i purposely asked my friend to go to the places where he used to hang out, hoping i would bump into him. i know i am silly but it is really tough. i havent been going through any happy days since then. deen depressed actually n ate very very little.

[vashti]

i purposely asked my friend to go to the places where he used to hang out, hoping i would bump into him. .

Don't do that. It is a very self-destructive activity. You should be AVOIDING places he might be so you WON'T bump into him. That should continue until you are certain you are over him.

[DaddysAngel]

i agree give your self time and space it does get easier confusise says

[Alex Nova]

Don't do that. It is a very self-destructive activity. You should be AVOIDING places he might be so you WON'T bump into him. That should continue until you are certain you are over him.

You guys give good advice to women... now when it comes to men...

[vashti]

You guys give good advice to women... now when it comes to men...

I give good advice to men, and also to guys who want to grow into men.

[DaddysAngel]

HAPPY HALLOWEEN TO ALL AND TO ALL A SCARY NIGHT That just because men know men and what they are thinking sometimes

[King Zarathu]

I haven't read anything other than the thread title, and this is my conclusion:



You...you broke up, and you want to go on a ****ing trip with this asshole?!


That's like saying "hey lolollll... my wife is in the hospital and she's about to give birth to my child... oh shit... the water just broke...

SHOULD I HAVE SEX WITH HER?!?!?!?!?!!111111 LOL!!!!1111"


"I HAVE A 56% IN PHYSICS AND WE HAVE A TEST 2MORROW!!!111

SHOULD I STUDY?!?!?!!"



"I JUS BROKE UP WITH MY BOYFREND...


SHULD I GO ON VACATION W/ HIM??? LOL"


My ****ing God dude. You two broke up. Leave his cock alone!

[LosTnLoveD]

well, i would want to leave him alone but right now he is the one making me more miserable...

he msged me this morning stating that he is not as mean as i thought he was, n he hadn't forgotten about me, that he still miss me...

wat was i suppose to think??? previously he was the one being so firm to his decision, n now y must he say such things to me..

i replied back that we'll be happy as friends n he said he is happy to hav a friend like me..

i am stucked.. he is not letting me forget him easily...

[King Zarathu]

well, i would want to leave him alone but right now he is the one making me more miserable...

he msged me this morning stating that he is not as mean as i thought he was, n he hadn't forgotten about me, that he still miss me...

wat was i suppose to think??? previously he was the one being so firm to his decision, n now y must he say such things to me..

i replied back that we'll be happy as friends n he said he is happy to hav a friend like me..

i am stucked.. he is not letting me forget him easily...

You learned your lesson for the next boyfriend, and you apply it to him. Move on.

[lovedacupid]

I mean... did anything happen before he asked to break up with you? Out of a mist, how can he just sent you a msg - towards an end???

Is pretty stupid, how he invited you to go to the trip, because it ws the initial plan!~ I mean if you want to patch it up with your bf, obviously part of you would love to go... no doubt, been there, done that...know exactly how you feel (heartbroken even though he is SOOOO SOOO RUDE). I think you feeling more in love and stress, because you are used to being in a relationship at the same time. Is hard to forget the good memories... and because you arent given with any proper reason, which lead you to the no go zone"Cant let go". We womens, need explaination even though we know is going to hurt us!!!
If you go...I think you will be more in love with him, and you probably cant help but ask him during the trip "why he broke up with you?" You dont want to ruin the trip halfway in China, do you?
Maybe you should play it cool~

I hope you will soon recover...