What in the world is "Just Friends"?

[miSSleepy]

A lot of younger men rush into thinking a woman is interested in them because she's simply friendly. Coming by your work, telling you you're awesome and great looking ... so? She can think those things about a make friend.

I think in most cases, "just friends" means JUST FRIENDS.

So be her friend. You never know what can happen in the future .

[clearskies]

((You never know what can happen in the future .))
true, no one can expect whats gonna happen...

[Starlight08]

Girls want a chase! They like to have what they cant have, you need to play a little hard to get rather than show that you want her.

[Illusional]

what part of, "let's be friends" do you not understand??

raverboy

[Cain]

what part of, "let's be friends" do you not understand??

raverboy

I think they truly do understand what it means, they just don't want to believe it.

[Illusional]

I think they truly do understand what it means, they just don't want to believe it.

that's another way of putting it... ignorance is bliss.

raverboy

[littlewing]

((You never know what can happen in the future .))
true, no one can expect whats gonna happen...

Funny, I saw "What in the world is 'Just...'" I just knew it was the "friends" thing again...

To me it would mean that she wants to be just friends FOR NOW

[Cain]

Funny, I saw "What in the world is 'Just...'" I just knew it was the "friends" thing again...

To me it would mean that she wants to be just friends FOR NOW

Does they need to start getting more specific with you then?

"Look, I want to be just friends forever. There will be no chance that we will ever date, ever, never, ever in the lifetime or the next no matter what."

Even then you'd probably think it was only temporary, right?

I think people just have a hard time believing that someone might not be *gasp* interested in them.

[IndiReloaded]

A lot of younger men rush into thinking a woman is interested in them because she's simply friendly. Coming by your work, telling you you're awesome and great looking ... so? She can think those things about a make friend.

I think in most cases, "just friends" means JUST FRIENDS.

So be her friend. You never know what can happen in the future .

For a GIRL, ya. But for a guy 'just friends' means:

- you're ugly but your friend is hot so I'll keep that option open

- you're hot but you're taken/married/otherwise unavailable to me... so I'll be your friend until the situation changes and/or I find someone else to take my mind *cough*dick*cough* off of you.

BTW, this doesn't mean the guy-girl aren't good friends. I'm not saying anyone is being fake, just not fessing to everything that is going on. Biology IS pressing, afterall.

[Cain]

A guy will NOT be friends with a girl because she's a nice person. It's either to **** her or she has hot friends. That's it. There's no other reason to hang out with them.

[boobaa]

A lot of younger men rush into thinking a woman is interested in them because she's simply friendly. Coming by your work, telling you you're awesome and great looking ... so? She can think those things about a make friend.

I think in most cases, "just friends" means JUST FRIENDS.

So be her friend. You never know what can happen in the future .

Man and woman are meant to be a pole and socket, in each other, not side by side.

[Illusional]

well there is always the ftf option.

raverboy

[shh!]

She's not interested in you romantically. She probably never will be, either.

[miSSleepy]

A guy will NOT be friends with a girl because she's a nice person. It's either to **** her or she has hot friends. That's it. There's no other reason to hang out with them.

How depressing then.

How true is it, though?

[anachronistic]

"Just friends" means a woman is perfectly mature, and you somehow (maybe not your fault) lost your chance to get with her. Feel very bad, because not all women will be that honest with you, and you just lost your chance with that. Yeah.

Or it could mean, that she is a ****ing idiot because she didn't go out with you, and obviously any chick that won't go out with you is just a ****ing whore.

Or maybe you made a bad impression, or maybe she's so sick she's trying to trick you into wasting more time getting with her. Whatever it is, don't waste any more time trying to get with her; the legs are closed for good. You've been rejected.

But keep doing it (with other girls); it puts hair on your chest, and then when you have enough of that, you'll get a nice woman who has a hairy chest fetish, like shh! Can't go wrong with that