Stringing Me Along...How to Move On

[girl68]

I think you stimply need to be stronger and move on. Really what you're doing is just giving in each and every time. You need to be stronger.

[LailaK]

He's f**king with your head. The proper course of action in this case would be to initiate the no contact rule and possibly find a new man to distract yourself with. Someone who actually cares about you won't f**k with your feelings and he's just standing in the way of you finding someone better.

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[xxazurexx]

Actually, no. He is largely the initiator with calls and texts.

I was thinking you were the 'main' initiator and because you said he's not likely to phone you. That you have to stop yourself from phoning him.

So why won't he be likely to call you this time and if he has been the 'main' initiator in the past, which kept this cycle going?

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[Gigabitch]

i agree. You've been Friendzoned. He's not treating you the way you want to be treated- why keep going back for more of the same?

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[xxazurexx]

^^ Know exact how you feeling

How long has this all been going on for?

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[xxazurexx]

The same length of time as me then.

Thing is and if he is like the guy in my situation, he's probably been leading you on and into thinking it was 'more' and to keep you around.....it keeps you hooked and when you are hooked it's harder to break away.

I was starting to get fed up of the situation way back in November and after only being in it for 8 months and now I'm at a point where I could take him or leave him. I'm not bothered anymore and to be honest think I'd checked out of it all and stopped caring some months ago. You will reach that stage eventually.