Aspie relationship

[Hookahmike]

yes I am in both cases. Unfortunately weve only been together a month, so most of her triggers are beyond me right now. All I know is when im with her I feel like I havent in a long time. While I was waiting it out do I contact her at all?

[MaidenMinx]

This is tough because everyone reacts differently to different things and want different responses to their reactions.

Ummm when I am in a mood with someone and request space (it's taken me years to learn how to do that) I personally don't want to see or hear from them until I am ready. What I haven't learnt to do yet is let them know I am ok again.
Often when I am upset, I want someone to spend sometime with me trying to figure out what's wrong and how I got so out of sorts.

Maybe text her and ask if she is up for coming over to visit, or if she minds if you visit her at hers. If she says yes, be prepared with some of her favourite music or a favourite movie.
And maybe not do much more than hold her hand.

[Hookahmike]

So I just have to wait it out? Damn I hate that

[Hookahmike]

So she broke it off and with me snd now we're just friends with benefits

[Hookahmike]

With the emphosis on friend