My situation- Very interesting

[tinantx]

I'll admit it, I have cheated once before, several years ago. Yea stuff does happen. But your talking about having married a man you didn't have feeling for, then cheating on him. After realizing it was wrong you comtinued to act inappropriately and then after you ended the marriage you cheated in your next relationship. Get off your high horse, yea other people are messed up too but thinking that somehow makes what your doing ok is screwed logic

I didn't say that there was nothing there. I did care about my husband. Get off yours honey.

[gardenofjade]

If you are legally married and don't need to be then you owe him a divorce. Then you can do whatever you want to. First things first.

[Drew91]

I didn't say that there was nothing there. I did care about my husband. Get off yours honey.

Not on a high horse, but read OP where you say otherwise honey

[tinantx]

If you are legally married and don't need to be then you owe him a divorce. Then you can do whatever you want to. First things first.

That's right. Thank you. However, for some reason I can't bring myself to divorce him. How should I do this? Should I tell BF what happened and give hubby a chance? I'm afraid to get back into the relationship and it all goes downhill again. KWIM?

[tinantx]

Not on a high horse, but read OP where you say otherwise honey

I said that I didn't feel that I wanted to marry him yet. But I thought it was the right thing to do since we were living together and his family thought we should. Thanks. I was young. I did what I thought I was supposed to.

[tinantx]

Does this forum not have a moderator?

[gardenofjade]

Divorce him because you will never know what it's like until you do. And the relationship is effed up now. As for the other guy, put him on hold, don't be dependent on him. YOu should be your own woman and take care of your business. Don't be afraid, it'll be ok.

[tinantx]

Maybe people wouldn't call you names on here if you didn't talk down to everyone ever consider that or enjoy being a bitch too much?

The first comment was "Good afternoon cunting slut" Thanks. Dumb ass.

[tinantx]

Divorce him because you will never know what it's like until you do. And the relationship is effed up now. As for the other guy, put him on hold, don't be dependent on him. YOu should be your own woman and take care of your business. Don't be afraid, it'll be ok.

Thank you. That is a good answer.

[tinantx]

Yea and since then you've done nothing to make anyone wanna give advice to your skanky ass except to leave these men the hell alone.

What are you 12?

[gardenofjade]

Maybe you need some time to decide what you really want. Get the divorce and see what happens. I betcha it will all work out better, you will be free of drama and men pulling you in too many directions and happiness will follow... best of luck.

[tinantx]

What is so interesting about bashing someone on the internet that you do not know? Hmmmmm. Get off the internet and do your school work.

[tinantx]

Maybe you need some time to decide what you really want. Get the divorce and see what happens. I betcha it will all work out better, you will be free of drama and men pulling you in too many directions and happiness will follow... best of luck.

Thanks.

[Drew91]

What are you 12?

No. But my first post on here wasnt meant to be a dig at you, just an honest opinion. Didn't call you names or include judgement and you decided to reply to my post with insults. And you claim that people on here were too scared to admit there faults like you so I prefaced my next comment with the fact that I want hiding that I've cheated before. Not looking to fight on here and call names but your truly behaving like a stuck up bitch

[surfhb]

Well, obviously Im not using the word "whore" in the true sense....its slang these days ..or did you not get that memo?

Hey! Dont take my word for it...ask either / or of your Lovers what they think of the situation and tell us what they happened to say?

Me? relationship issues? Gawd...you bet! Have I ever cheated on someone? No I haven't. Have I ever stole? Yes....and was called a thief and arrested. Have I lied? Sure! and was called a ****ing lair to my face.....sure didnt feel good

So here ya go whore! This life isnt about you, so have the common courtesy to fill people in when you go behind their backs. Its only human ya know...

BTW....for the advise you want to hear, you need to head over to the open relationship/swingers forum....things are way too vanilla around here. BTW...no ones picking on you or think you are bad person....they just give harsh, honest opinions so you realize the situation better...make sense?