How much should I take?

[Tone]

She probably senses the same weakness we can sense in you. She knows she can get away with it and she says all that bullshit not only to try to make you feel it's okay, but to try to convince herself what she's doing is okay.

I agree with the others, it's complete bullshit and I would let her know that kind of shit is NOT gonna fly with me. Screw all that "I'm comin home to you" bullshit, that's the kind of stuff you tell yourself when you hear about someone hittin on your g/f on the store or at the club or somethin... not what you say to her CHOOSING to cuddle with someone. I would say if she wants to cuddle with him, then maybe he should be her boyfriend and not you. I can't really see things gettin much better, so it would probably be best to get out before you get more attached and more hurt.

[carpflounder]

I see this kind of crap in college all the time... A hot girl with a "boyfriend" back at home. I dont know about how many girls cheat altogether but in colleges I would estimate that 60-80% of girls with long distance bfs cheat.

This is what I've noticed, and its a totally different reallity when your doing on of these girls from when you see them talking all sweet on the phone to their chump bf back at home.

Hey dude, do you think that she just became a ho her senior year??
Theres nothing you can do to change her. Either suffer or dump her. Its that simple.

[smilingeyes]

So what exactly is HER definition of "cuddle"?