I know it's impossible to tell without knowing the people, but I just want your opinions on my situation...I apologize in advance for my inability to be brief ;)
I'm a 20-year-old girl in college. Never been in a relationship. Kinda awkward around guys I like... don't think I can flirt, but other people tell me I do. :)
Anyway, I met this guy in one of my classes at the beginning of Fall '05 semester - we were lab partners in our Calc class. I had an immediate huge crush on him, and thought about him ALL the time. He's funny, I think he's really cute, outgoing, etc. We would get together to do homework once in awhile and he would drive me back to my dorm. Not really touchy-feely, but he'd touch my arm or something once in a while.
End of the semester we got together to study, at the lab where we usually did homework, and after 2 hours or so he said he needed to go back to his apartment to get something to eat (he lives alone off-campus), and asked if I would mind going over there. No problem. We went over, studied for awhile, and ended up just watching some movies and talking... nothing "happened". When I left, I went to hug him and it was kind of awkward, but it was generally pretty comfortable and relaxed.
A week later was our final, and we planned to get together on Sunday night to make study guides and everything. We met at the lab, and soon after he said he'd rather go back and study at his place. We went back and he said he didn't want to study. We turned on a movie. He went to get changed, and came back not wearing a shirt. I was sitting on the couch wrapped in a blanket, (it was cold!) and he asked if I had seen a blanket. I replied "um, you mean this one? you can have it!" and he was like "no, we can share it." So he came and pulled the blanket over him too. Again, nothing really happened - he kinda had his arm behind me on the couch, but we weren't even really touching. We talked a lot about random stuff.
Later, he went to get a drink and came back and asked "Hey, this may seem weird, but are you good at giving backrubs?" I said I guessed so, but that I demanded backrub payback :), so he laid down on the floor (still no shirt) and I went and sat on the floor next to him and started giving him a backrub. He said "No, you have to be on top of me." So I sat on his back and gave him a backrub for like 5 or 10 minutes (felt like 2 seconds... lol) After a few minutes he got up to turn off the TV, and said he would reciprocate, so I laid down and he gave me a really good backrub for a bit.
It was 3 am and we had a final the next day, so I left soon after... he actually initiated the hug-giving this time (still wearing no shirt! argh!) Next day we didn't get to talk really because of the exam. That's basically all... we saw each other yesterday, hugged, and talked for 10 minutes and he said he's been meaning to call me.
What do you think? Sorry that was so unnecessarily long... I guess I like to relive these experiences by writing about them. :goofy:
ETA: Basically, what I've gotten so far is that he wants me to like him, but whether its for his own ego or because he actually likes me is the question. Anyone good at reading these things? :)
