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I am a virgin and when my fiance tried to stick his finger in me, it hurt so bad I screamed. We've tried to have sex since then, but that hurts too. He hardley gets in, the pain is so bad I make him stop, so he doesn't get in enough to please me. Any advice?
Were your ready to have sexual experiences with him?
See the thing is .. if your scared that's ok. It will hurt a first but, if you really weren't "ready" then it would be unbareable. I guess you need to really think about it.
I would also think it might help if your man uses some lube first. I think it might lessen the pain alittle.. Just try and stay relaxed.
we've never tried a lube, could that be all it is?
it might be.. it could also be that subciously..(sp) that you aren't ready. I would be absolutely ceratin that your ready, use lube and relax. Honestly, fingering can even be better then sex sometimes!
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