Originally Posted by
DoesntMatter
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Well that might be part of your problem. I can't attract women either so I am not qualified to give you advice. So when you read what I have to say remember that.
First off, if you are not funny, don't try to be. I am not funny, so I don't bother with that. You will be better off not making any jokes. I love humor, but this does not mean I am funny. If humor is not one of your assets, don't highlight it.
Try not to be so caring. This might prevent you from acting yourself and becoming too conservative in your attempts to chat up girls. Save your caring for when you have a girlfriend.
You said you are 21, and you aren't looking for sex. The girls your age WILL be looking for sex! Match their desires. Unless you have been castrated, you should have a sex drive too.
The fact that you are already going out socially with your friends and their female friends means you are on the right track. You might want to try loosening up a little with some alcohol and see what happens.