"Curiosity killed the relationship"
Just like the saying "Curiosity killed the cat" I think the above saying works just as well.
So here is my question to all you Love Forum members.
Why do so many people rummage through their partners/ex's email, IMs, texts, listen into calls, etc.. only to find out something that hurts them. It could be anything from a small misunderstanding such as a joke between friends or something kinda big that was a mistake on the partners fault. Or many times after a break-up when the ex is in a new relationship the other ex many times watched too closely or kinda investigates into the new relationship only to just get hurt from what they find.
It seems stupid that so many people do this and many times they do it knowing that they will be hurt.
I'm not going to lie, I've done it and even when doing it I though "hey this is a bad idea because I'm pretty sure what I find I wont like" but yet I continued on until I found something then I felt like shit. I have seen/heard plenty of other people do this also.:emot60:
So what makes people do this?