so, in this last 9 months our families have met and started to get to know eachother, which is a major MAJOR breakthrough for us.
My mums slowly getting to know him. they speak occassionaly on the phone, she showered him with gifts on his birthday, shes always asking about him which is great for me, as this is what i wanted.
but his mum is so not interested in us and our relationship. she hasn't called me round to there place (even though shes been to ours twice), she doesn't call, and she generally seems disinterested.
i find this kinda hurtful. when i told my bf he said he's talk to her about it. he's really shy and does not like confrontations at all, but he talked to her and she said she'd call.
she doesn't speak much english so i've been practising our native language with him, for when she does call..but she hasn't. He's said to her a few times now but she keeps making exscuses.
i'm at a dead end. for the first time in our relationship this is causing a problem.
background: been with bf 3years. All parents were aginst dating for religious reasons so them accepting him is a big deal.
