Hello all! I dug this website up because I really have a question I need to ask you ladies your opinion on. My girlfriend and I have been together for nine months and we have been deeply in love. She has an ex boyfriend that ive known for awhile who has since moved halfway across the country to Missouri, and whom both her and I talk to (I do about once a month, she does every other day or so).
Well, about four months ago she said she was going to go see him over spring break. He's paying for the plane ticket. At first there were plans to bring me along but then these were thrown aside as it was revealded he wouldn't have enough money.
He is the only person I know there and about two weeks ago she told me he has a bachelor pad with three other men I've never met living there.
My quandry is this: I want to let her be free and live her life, and there are quite a few cool things she listed off that she gets to do while she's there, but I am really uncomfortable with this. I could never imagine even asking to go see an ex for a week alone. Is my discomfort justified? I'm at wits end and I would appreciate any possible feedback.
Thank all the readers who took the time to immerse themselves in my bullshit little problems. This is just very important to me.
