For those outside there hurting.
Sorry for not posting in a while, bogged down with immense amounts of work, and i still am, but i've found a bit time.
Right, to those who are feeling they have nothing left after a relationship, it's simply not true. Take it from me, it took me a month and half to get my perspective back, and after 2 months, i was ready to move on, until she came calling. What i'm saying is, invest all your efforts into yourself, NOT her/him. NC even when it hurts it is and always will be for now, your best friends. Get out there with your friends, get back to how you were, what made your girlfriend attracted to you, not for her, but for you! Don't go calling/texting constantly it's needy and will put her off, seriously NC is the best and only option, take it from me.
My ex came crawling back, and we got back, but now she's begging to stay with me, see how NC has turned the tables? Empower yourself! You're dependent on yourself and not her, there's plenty out there, she's 1 girl out of billions more. Trust me, after a few weeks or a month, things will ease off and feel better. Time is your healer, and NC will set you up for a reunited relationship or a new relationship.
Good luck everyone! You's can do it, keep posting on these forums, they helped me, and i hope just somehow i've helped you guys out.
