Weird situation, I guess. Please help

First off, let me start by saying that I am separated from my wife of 3 years, we have actually been together for 10 total. We have been separated now for about 2 months, so I am basically living like I am single. I work at a night club as a bouncer part time, and know a few girls there who I talk to, but one in particular I have hung out with and we ended up having sex. Ever since then, she has been avoiding me like crazy, and it pisses me off. I ask her if she wants to go see a movie, nope. I ask her if she wants to go out for drinks, nope.She invites me to hang out with her and her friends, then when I show up she is too tired and is heading home. She said she had texted me way earlier but the text never went through right away and I didn't get it right away, yet I still drove 20 minutes to meet her. I even asked her if she is avoiding me, she says no, but i'm not stupid. I think I am just gonna cut off contact with her, because I am going through enough shit with the separation that I don't need this bullshit too.

sorry...it doesnt sound like she's that interested in you... you don't have to cut ties off with her. but probably stop thinking of her like a lover or something. you never know. she could have just had sex with you so she could get into the club for free. some people i know do that. and its pretty damn disturbing and stupid. But idk, some girls are just like that... :s (they wont admit it so if you ask her shes gonna say no.)

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Originally Posted by iHEARTu [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

sorry...it doesnt sound like she's that interested in you... you don't have to cut ties off with her. but probably stop thinking of her like a lover or something. you never know. she could have just had sex with you so she could get into the club for free. some people i know do that. and its pretty damn disturbing and stupid. But idk, some girls are just like that... :s (they wont admit it so if you ask her shes gonna say no.)

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I have seen her at the club a ton of times, just about every weekend for about 6 months. I never did anything cause I was with my wife, but after we separated it was open season. I have never let her in for free or even got her any free drinks, so that isn't the reason. I am just kind of sick of whatever reason it is and just wanna move on, but also kind of want to know for sure before I stop talking to her. It's been about a month since we boned, and I haven't seen her since, just talk to her via text message. It's just a weird situation.