Need advice on how to stop crushing/lusting after someone at work
Ok here's the deal. I'm a young 30's year old guy, good looking, never had any problems with the ladies (though I'm no player). However, I am absolutely lusting over this woman at work. I've worked for this place for several months, but only in the last couple months have I begun to develop these feelings. She haunts my mind 24/7, for absolutely no good reason. I don't know very much about her, besides obvious things people learn about each other when they are co-workers. We don't work in the same department, though we are proximate to each other. At first we developed a casual friendship, exchanging pleasantries and the like, and stares and smiles, and the cute look away thing. Part of me believes that she has feelings for me because there seems to be some odd tension between us, though I could be mistaken. But lately I can't bring myself to even talk to her, I'll ignore her, walk by without saying anything. It's too painful to talk to her knowing that it could never be (she's married, with children). I figure it has to be lust, because I don't know anything beyond the superficial about her.
So I need your help. I've never had these emotions over someone before, and would like to know how some of you battled these feelings, or any suggestions you might have. Thanks!