Long distance relationship woes
Separated by 55-miles the 2-years of our relationship have been up and down more times than a rollercoaster - and with much more physical stress. Every time the pattern is the same; small argument, she goes off for head space to contemplate whether she wants to be with me or not, I get fed up sitting on the fence and end it, 2-days to 4-weeks later she is back. Nothing changes except the fact that I'm getting more used to it - there's only so many times you can lead a man to the gallows before he says sod it just hang me!!! There's no stability and without it I can't see any future with her. At present we have split up again. I don't want to get back with her but don't feel I have the emotional strength to say no. I love her, but know it's not right.
My question is, what's all this about? Why does she keep questioning the relationship? Am I missing something?