is he mad at me or just playing games?
Ok so we kinda told each other we like each other, but I am so confused about what he wants. I know he likes me and he admitted to me finally, but doesnt want to commit and says he has wandering eyes. he keeps saying that I shouldn't involve with him because he is somewhat perverted and gets horny easily, but then the heart wants what the heart wants. Anyways I wanted to ask him some stuff like why he says he likes me yet he keeps saying that I shouldnt get involved with him. He asked me when did I start liking him and how and he we were flirting and he kept saying that he may like someone and I told him to spill it out and he keeps saying I like someone who's short and her name rhymes with this and that.
I told him I don;t wanna go home yet because i wanted to talk to him about stuff but I don't know where to start. I am confused about the signals he is giving me. I feel there is a vibe between us, but yet I am getting this negative feedback. I know he is probably not ready but he should at least tell me where we're at and how we should handle this situation. I know the answer is that he is not ready for a relationship and he keeps saying I shouldn't get involved with him because he is perverted and all. I am lost. He is sending me signals and asking if I was looking for a boyfriend. I mean he been asking me that hella times which is confusing me, feels like he is giving me a hint, yet he can't decide.
Well we went home anyways and we hung around in his car because I didn't want to get out yet and I thought he would have something to say and I wanted to say something but I don't know what to say. I even punched him and play fight with him and he seemed ok. Then he suddenly drove off stepping on the gas and drove home. Our house is a block away from each other. He got out the car and locked it and went home and I walked home by myself and I cried... I think he is mad, but I cannot tell because beforehand he was driving off and stepped on the gas all a sudden and I wasn't wear my seatbelt and we laughed about it and I asked him does he like playing games with me. Last time, he asked me why are you in my car if you know im perverted and I said ok let me get off and he stops at the freeway on the lane where cops usually pull you over and he even open the door and said get out with a smile and I was like are you serious and he said no and we laughed...
I think I did something wrong. Maybe because he thinks I am pressuring to get in a relationship but I am really not. I just don't understand what he wants to do.
He would suggest things for us to do like movies, dinner, shopping, but doesn't follow through until I get pissed when he suggest something and I say yes and he says I don't want to. When I get pissed, he decides to go. Like today he said we can watch movie at his place and then he said or we can grab a drink and then I said lets go. He says I wanna stay in....which I don't get. And he says its just an idea, but why throw it out in the open. I take what people says seriously, but now I cannot trust him because he will back out. He always says why are you in my car, I'm perverted. No one told you to come to my room or hang out with me. He knows how I feel about him, yet he makes me feel like iono how to say it...
