She is doing what a lot of people think they ar entitled to do after leaving someone: she wants to have her cake and eat it too and now that you are not willing to give her that her ego is hurt and will do anything to suck you back into her drama.
You did the best thing for yourself when you decided to go No Contact.What is the point of seeing her and still being in touch when this only hurts you? You made it clear you can't be friends and quite rightly so.You have every right to do that and she ought to have respected your decision just as you respected her decision to leave and move on with someone else. Her behaviour is disrespectful towards you and you should be proud of yourself for being mature enough and for caring/respecting yourself enough to cut off all contact with her.This is not spiteful on your part; it is a survival technique.
No point is responding to her to tell her what you have already explained in the past but she just chose to disregard because it suits her. Block her number so she can't text you, defriend and block her from FB, block her email address.This way you won't have to deal with her trying to guilt-trip you into a 'friendship' with her. Stick to No Contact so that you can heal faster.Allowing her back into your life in any shape or form will only result in her hurting you even more while she feels totally content at the expense of your emotional health and sanity.
