Why the silent treatment?
At the start of this year my girlfriend and I who weren’t that serious decided to break up, each for our own reasons.
After things had cooled down a bit and we were happily friends again she txt me one night and said that “she missed me and that it was really important to her that we stay friends”. I honestly said that I miss her too. Later that night she txt me again and asked How did I miss her. I was a bit unsure about what she meant by this so I said; I miss her as a close friend. We then decided that we would meet up for coffee when we both got back into town.
However the next day I txted her and said that I missed her and still liked her as a girlfriend. That was a mistake, because I mostly wrote that message to try and find out what she meant. I immediately apologised for saying it. Since then I have apologised two more times since then.
Two weeks later we both left town to start university. It has now been two months since then and she hasn’t replied or tried to contact me at all. We are now in the same city but at different university. I would still like to know her and fix this friendship regardless if we dated again or not.
I can’t fully understand why she is acting like this, everyone’s thoughts and opinions would be much appreciated.
