So now she's ignoring me, what should I do?

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02-05-13, 11:15 PM
crudemood

So now she's ignoring me, what should I do?

I'll make this short.

We met and we went out a couple of times and I totally got the vibe that she liked me but I was too scared to do anything about. Even worse I pushed her away when I could tell she was into me.
We went out clubbing and I may have drank a little too much which made her upset at me. I did regrettable things because I was scared of my attraction to her. A week later I apologized to her and she said we were cool.

I've tried to ask her out again to make it up to her but she's been genuinely busy. She has always responded to my texts up until yesterday she ignored it.

Forget it or actually call her?
03-05-13, 02:44 AM
THX

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Originally Posted by crudemood [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I was scared of my attraction to her.

Why? This is much more important problem than whether you should call or not.
03-05-13, 03:00 AM
HeartIsAching

^good question^

Ya blew it dude. Time to move on.
03-05-13, 03:32 AM
crudemood

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Originally Posted by THX [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Why? This is much more important problem than whether you should call or not.

That is a good question, I've been trying to figure that out myself...

I think I have serious fear of getting rejected/hurt.

Anyways, I'm gonna give it a shot I guess, I have nothing to lose here.
03-05-13, 04:00 AM
pcmaster

Are you lesbian?
03-05-13, 04:01 AM
THX

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Originally Posted by crudemood [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I have nothing to lose here.

BINGO! And that's the attitude you have to have with rejection as well. Once intrest comes into the picture between a man and a woman the risk of rejection is already in play. It can't be put back in the box. If you risk rejection , you MAY get rejected. If you don't risk rejection you WILL get rejected. The latter might be a little less intense because it is not face to face, but it lasts a lot longer, and damages your belief that you go after what you want.
03-05-13, 08:52 AM
HeheMan

When girls ignore me I just bang other girls.
03-05-13, 08:58 AM
lamobatsman

Heheman!!!
03-05-13, 10:38 AM
crudemood

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Originally Posted by THX [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

BINGO! And that's the attitude you have to have with rejection as well. Once intrest comes into the picture between a man and a woman the risk of rejection is already in play. It can't be put back in the box. If you risk rejection , you MAY get rejected. If you don't risk rejection you WILL get rejected. The latter might be a little less intense because it is not face to face, but it lasts a lot longer, and damages your belief that you go after what you want.

Thats right. I'll forever regret not having tried. I'm going to go for what I want. :)
03-05-13, 10:38 AM
crudemood

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Originally Posted by pcmaster [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Are you lesbian?

Why yes I am.
03-05-13, 10:51 AM
HeartIsAching

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Originally Posted by crudemood [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Why yes I am.

Awesome.

*not directed at you* Why does it matter?
03-05-13, 11:19 AM
crudemood

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Originally Posted by HeartIsAching [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Awesome.

Thanks for that. :)
03-05-13, 11:24 AM
Worrier92

Call her you've already embarrassed yourself when you were drunk. Try to tell her how sorry you are and how bad you feel that you screwed up.
03-05-13, 10:16 PM
crudemood

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Originally Posted by Worrier92 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Call her you've already embarrassed yourself when you were drunk. Try to tell her how sorry you are and how bad you feel that you screwed up.

I will. :) Thanks for the push I needed guys.