Ok well. Me and my gf of 6 months decided to break up about a month ago. It wasnt really a break up. Sort of just a break for a bit. We both have problems to figure out. One of the reasons we broke up was because she kept talking to her ex. She would tell me she was done talking to him. She would promise that he is out of her life and mine. Well i should probably explain why i dont want her to talk to him. And why there is no reason she should. When they were dating, he sent ya know...suggestive pics of her to lots of people (she doesnt send suggestive pics anymore thank god), he would brag about the pics. Then after they broke up. Me and her got together. A few months in after her promisig not to talk to him, he comes around making up lies about how they still hang out (they dont. They only text. But sometimes they would get on calls. Even though she clearly knew i hated it). He would also make up lies about her cheating on me. And me cheating on her. Neither of which happened. But he was just trying to split us up. Then again, she promised to stop talking to him blah blah blah. Broke her promise again. We broke up. And we are tryin to work things out now. We are almost back together. But the thing is...like we both say how much we love each other. We both express our feelings for each other. But now she tells me that she is goin on a date with some guy. She promises nothing is going to happen. She said nothing more than a peck on the lips to say good bye. I know it shouldnt matter to me bc we are broken up, but like...why would she tell me about the date in the first place? She is really nice and sweet, but the lies kill me. I want her back. She wants me back. But she is going on a date with some guy? What do i do? Should i keep trying to fix things? Or just give up? I mean 6 months is a long time. Itd be hard to get over her. And when we get along, its perfect.
