I feel like you should just get to know someone first... You seem like the one who has his head on straight, not everyone in your town. Look to talk and flirt first,an d you'll eventually find a girl who wants the same (and will therefore probably be better for you anyway!) Might take time, but keep trying to get to know more and more people. If you have to, even tell them that you'd rather get to know someone first before sticking your tongue down their throat. I feel like the girls you're looking for would be intrigued by that level of respect andthoughtfulness!