Kick her to the curb huh
Kick her to the curb huh
Yeah, basically. Stand up for yourself. If you're not happy, kick her to the curb.
WYSIWYG.
If you don't like party girls, don't date them. There are plenty of fun, responsible, interesting 18 year old girls. Why don't you find one of those instead?
Its not that i dont like her. Its that i didnt like what she did. I wanted to know if what she did was normal or not. I wanted to know if i was being irrational by being offended by what she did.
yeah it's not a nice thing to do to someone. but it's something girls that are very young do.
you can either put up with it or not. most people would not.
Its not a question of 'normal', its a matter of preference.Quote:
Originally Posted by Freefalling [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'm not sure, in this case, what the difference is b/t not liking her vs. what she did. Who she is, is a person who enjoys partying in the wee hours before dawn. She also takes drugs and, I would guess, is more likely to be involved in high-risk sexual activities. It goes with that lifestyle.
Personally, I wouldn't even be interested in someone who would take off to party at 4am. So, being offended wouldn't even come into it for me, I'd just decide I prefer someone with a different lifestyle.
Not much scares me, but Ecstasy would be one of those things. I don't think people realize how dangerous it is. It might not harm your lungs or face, but it will steal your soul. It depletes and stops production of Serotonin, which controls anger, mood, appetite and other important functions.
This girl is 100% party and 100% all about her... and those percentages leave little time for you.
So... do you want to try to fit into her busy schedule of partying, try the mostly unsuccessful approach of changing her... or... do you want to find someone else who would like to include you in their life as someone more than a boy toy or after thought?
I would say to myself, "well I chose her". Now, I either accept her behavior or leave.Quote:
Originally Posted by Freefalling [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I hear ya. And i really appreciate all your inputs on this. What id like to know know is... What is the cause of her behaviour? I mean... Is it because she is young? ...if so, is it a typical teenager who loves to party's behaviour? Is it because she doesnt care? If so, how come there are a hundred and one other things that she does that contradict it...like calling me ever other hour to talk and tell me what she is doing, and really being hurt whenever she ever so slightely feels like i am neglecting her...even when i dont mean to. Being overly jealous. All of these things are what a notice, they are her actions. So its not like im being mislead. So what do you think are or is the reason or reasons to her behaviour.
Teenage girls are contradictory, there are no reasons to explain them
Anyway, if you are looking for a solution to that kind of behaviour
hand cuff her to the bed.
What difference does it make? The end result is the same, and it is intolerable. Don't look for excuses for her bad behavior; accept it for what it is.Quote:
Originally Posted by Freefalling [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'm pretty sure Hitler had good days; he probably liked puppy dogs and kitty cats, and he appreciated the arts. Does that mean we should excuse his behavior?
lol. you're naivety is so cute.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cbrider [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
LAND OF THE FREE.Quote:
Originally Posted by misombra [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
People are always free.
What you meant was: she doesn't want him.
Gosh.. are you still going on about her?Quote:
Originally Posted by Freefalling [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Dump her.. don't try to understand her.. she's immature, that says it all. She may grow up one day.. like 10, 15, 20 years from now...
Meanwhile, find yourself a nice loving girl that respects you.