Wait a minute here, what's wrong about preferring the toy to the real thing? You folks need to start clarifying what you mean and proving your claims.Quote:
Originally Posted by DCbob [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Suppose it is more stimulating or maybe the sex isn't enjoyable for him?... that's understandable.
I would be more worried about the level of communication between them and his dishonesty. That seems to present the greater issue.
I'm not disapproving of toys in any way. I'm 100% disapproving of any man who wants to take toys, books or prawn over me. You can sure incorpoarte any of said things above INTO the sex WITH me, but you may not use them to REPLACE me. Hell no.
And if the sex with a toy is more enjoyable than me you either have issues, can't talk about why, can't bear to let me know how to make it better, or you've indulged too much are are no desensitized to me. In all cases I would dump your ass.
its ok to prefer what you like. but he did it in a way that made his girlfriend feel bad. you are right that communication is the real issue.Quote:
Originally Posted by doppelgaenger [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
but still, making your partner wait while use a toy to pleasure yourself and then looking to them as an afterthought is not cool.
I thought you had insecurities?Quote:
Originally Posted by girl68 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
So in other words, what you are saying is that your bf can't use a sex toy unless he only uses them while having sex with you? More specifically, he can't aid himself with inanimate objects (like sex toys and porn) while masturbating in private, otherwise you'll dump him?
This is not about me. Toys are great COMPLIMENTS to a sex life, they are destructive when used as replacements- that is all I'm saying on the matter in this thread.
The OP's guy has used these objects as replacements to her. That is the issue.
I'm not trying to make this personal, but it only reassures my original point... the OP has a serious problem/insecurity that makes it NOT OKAY for her bf to use toys and stuff.
Asso comes to mind he is really inconsiderate fake vag over the real thing maybe for valentines day you could get him a blow up gf
You're dumb.Quote:
Originally Posted by doppelgaenger [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Go away, troll.Quote:
Originally Posted by doppelmakemelol [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'm fairly confident to say even very confident women wouldn't be pleased with OP's boyfriend if that's how he acted.Quote:
Originally Posted by doppelgaenger [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
yes it is farily obvious to anyone with the slightest shred of common decency and respect would not treat a woman hte way OP's boyfriend did.Quote:
Originally Posted by girl68 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I've already pointed this out. (Dishonesty, communication issues, strange behavior, etc.) But there is a discrepancy between the way he is acting vs. using toys and stuff for masturbation.Quote:
Originally Posted by girl68 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Things are not going to get better, but worse. Once he is tired of a fake vagina, he will go back to a real one, but not yours.
This pattern is rather common for men who are dissatisfied sexually. Often times it has nothing to do with their partner.
It's almost an obsession or addiction. He doesn't consider your feelings. He just needs his immediate urges taken care of.
My best friend has this issue, so I saw it first hand. I feel sad for his woman, but there is nothing anyone can do.
It will gradually spiral out of control. I suppose counseling may help, but you are not even married yet so there is no
point in counseling. Sorry but it doesn't look good.
As much as doppel may rub some people the wrong way I agree that the central issue is his lying and being inconsiderate, not the use of a sex toy. If he'd not been so stupid and blatant about buying/owning/using it and she found out some other way this thread would probably still have been posted with the OP saying that she had been "replaced".
Also has anyone noticed that the OP has not commented after making the initial post while everyone else asserts their opinion on the matter? Its starting to feel like a troll thread to me.
Loser troll they do hang here a bit wow still if true that man is an asso for doing this in front of her face one thing owning toys replacing a woman noway