I am not weak and selfish. And NO I have not married him for his money! If at all he has- I have helped him and his extended family in so many ways including financially- I got him off his negative ways and put him through uni at the initial stages as well. I had to sacrifice a lot to be with him and NOT the other way around. My husband is the only person I have ever been with and even though I am not fully happy in my marriage I have NEVER strayed! My thread would be about something else if that was the case. The reason I am posting here is bec I feel lost- I genuinely started to feel something for someone but feel guilty to leave behind someone else. If I wanted to sleep with this other guy I am sure it can be done as people have told me that I'm quite attractive. I don't want a mere sexual relationship with this other man.
I can't believe how quickly people can judge you and jump into conclusions! Just bec you are married doesn't mean you have to try to work it out and stick it out- what if you realize that you have made a mistake? Last I checked people are allowed to make mistakes. And NO I am not talking about sleeping around while being married to someone else- this thread is not about cheating.