Originally Posted by Rosebud
Margot I think there's just a lot going on in all directions. I think you know how to handle the things that may come but I also think you should prepare yourslef for the worst so that you won't be entirely shocked if it does happen. I can somewhat see where this guys is coming from in regards to this other woman but he should really examine the fact that it's a good possibility she is just using him and going back to him because it's something familair to her. I'm not making excuses for him but he does have a lot on his plate and I think you did a good thing by telling him he needs time to himself to really think about this. If he decides to marry this other chick then he didn't deserve you in the first place and like you said you will live and learn from this experience. If he decides to stay with you then I think you guys will have a lot to do on rebuilding the foundation of your relationship. It's a good thing he told you about this when he did, but they say the first fight you have is going to be the the fight your going to ahve the rest of the time your together. So I think you should really evaluate how much your willing to forgive this person and go from there.