26 and never had a boyfriend

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Originally Posted by Hypatia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I thought of some activities I could do that would have me meeting some people I might not elsewhere (tennis, canoeing club, shooting hoops, starting a neighborhood garden). It's still a little bit cold out, so I can't do a whole lot with this yet, but the garden idea in particular has me busy during my free time and not thinking so much about all this other nonsense. These are all things I've been toying with getting back to anyway. And the physical exercise should be good for me too- I ride my bike to commute and do some yoga, but these are more involved activities.

The idea is to begin with the end in mind, take the opportunities and treat life as a journey not a destination.

Take social activities, but actually be on a lookout for prospects. When you see them take opportunities to talk to them, you don't always have to be approached by someone. But most importantly, relax and have fun with people. It's all about the journey and experiences on the way. The more you intereact with people in a variety of social circumstances the easier everything falls into place.