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Hey everyone, i post on her infrequently recently, but it's just updates, and supportive in a way, i hope people can take something from what i've been through and use it as a example. I got dumped...

Massive spanner thrown in the works. I just got off her "be my friend forever, please." I have no idea where abouts that is putting me but i'm presuming not where i would want to be.

Drama Queens just aren't worth it and deserve their title.

Sounds like you're making the right moves, not only does it sound like you can do a hell of a lot better but that you deserve better, why...

Thanks for the replies... Boisdevie - Let us know how it goes.

She's become real distant lately, then she springs up and talks and is all over me like a rash. She said she feels as if i'm being...

Hey, thought i'd post an update. Wow, how far i've came, confused state of mind, but a wise one i suppose. The ex, i think i'm over, don't talk, nothing to her. I'm sure if she spoke, i'd be...

Kind of relate to you here buddy, but not in the sense of me actually moving on and making it official but when i was "better" my ex contacted me, etc, and we got back together. I fell for that...

Thanks for sharing that. I know, a relationship is a two way thing, and when one side decides to just take a back seat, that's when you should walk away. Which i'm trying to do, i'm trying to slowly...

It could be an act who knows. It doesn't deter from the fact that you can do better. What probably hurts most is because you're used to having her there, when that's taking away we try to get it...

Even if you guys ended up back together, now what? "Is she cheating on me?" "Where is she going?". With her cheating, your trust will have basically die, a relationship without trust is nothing. The...

Right been a few days since i've spoke. Over week since we broke up, and i'm starting to feel a lot better, weirdly enough. Been out with friends, everyone is saying the exact same thing, i can do...

Or just generally doesn't want me as shown. I don't know, like i said fine one minute, next hates me. We did argue, but we sorted things, it was only in the 2 days leading up to finishing, we really...

I know you guys talk sense and from experience, but it bugs me how one minute she is madly in love with me and the next not at all, finishing it. I worked on myself a lot and fixed a lot of things...

Yeah but I don't know what to make of it, she said the exact same we last broke up...

Just found out a conversation my friend had with my ex, she said, she had enough of the arguments, has nothing against me, not in a position to be friends but may talk in futures, it's not easy for...

I don't know. I'm confused and all over the place. Why would she be like that so early on, I mean is it likely she'll move on so quickly, or is she filling a void, perhaps something else?

My fear is she's going to move on within a month of this. I know she's talking to guys who she's been out with friends, getting me down a bit, she's kept me as a friend on Facebook, weird.

My sister commenting on my change of relationship, saying she is a "nutter" and i have to stay away. Her friend and my ex picked up on it, and decided to make fun by repeating what she said on my...

I just don't want to push her any further away then she already is or damage any form of miniute chance of her coming back y'know

Maybe somewhere down the line we'll get to talk, doubtful. I don't know why she always reacts like this, i just feel worthless and like a doormat. I done nothing but give everything she could need....

Yeah, but the thing is, she's ended it, and she won't talk at all to fix things, and make those changes. I just can't work out her thinking, as i have done basically nothing lately, besides send a...

I'm confused, was that sarcasm? So it does? I'm not saying it will or won't work, up until now it doesn't, because she won't let it, by fixing things. I feel helpless.

I suppose, when we've broke up, i done No Contact for a month and half, and she eventually started talking and we got back. I just think, and i don't know about you's, but this is the 3rd time we...

Thanks for the replies, well the break up is still fresh in terms of today, the last few times it took a week or 2, and i started to be myself, and by a month i was getting there, by the 2nd month,...

My friends have said that. I've left it as it, i've text her saying good luck with life etc, i've learnt NOT to beg. Are biggest fault was communication which i always stressed. But it's like she's...

Right, if you've seen posts in Jan, then you'd of noticed many of mine. Here we go again, THIRD time, am i seriously a fool? Right broke up in December, got back in February, broke up in March, got...