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So I actually have an update on this! Honestly, I was not expecting a response so a phone call was quite a surprise.

I did get in touch and it was a bit strange at first. He thought I may have...

Thanks everyone, I appreciate the support. I'm a little freaked out but it's worth a shot. I'll let you know how it goes!

I gave some more details, as requested.

Thanks for the advice Liebe89. Yeah I think I'm more nervous because he may have a girlfriend. Is it wrong to try and reconnect if he does?

Thank you all for responding. I actually was not expecting anyone to say go for it. And no worries, my name is not Susan so you're safe there.

Ah the breakup, yes. Well he broke up with me without...

So I need some straight forward advice. I probably won't like it but I'm open to it.

When do you give up? I fell in love 10 years ago and it lasted for 5 years. We were young and stupid and...

Yeah, I mean some guy just made a good point that maybe I'm reading into the whole thing and this guy is completely unaware. I just assumed if a girl was chatting to you for months, it would be a bit...

Really Borealis? I never thought about that so good point. Is there anything I could do to start showing interest without completely changing the dynamic of our conversations?

It sounds like she wanted some of the power back and now she's deciding if she wants to pursue things with you. We all want to be chased, that's obvious and you're right, she could have a new...

Definitely send her a message, maybe explain to her how you got her name but otherwise it's totally fine to do. Good luck!

A little game is ok, but just be careful because if she did recently get dumped she is probably quite vulnerable and is probably reading into every move you make. If you brush her off too much, she...

Handsome and strong is sexy because we like feeling a man take charge and protective. It's an instinctual thing. My girlfriends and I tend to go for cute, charming guys who may be a bit goofy....

I agree with most of the ideas from jb1111983. I was in a LTR for over 3 years and it was difficult but the key is to just let her know you're thinking about her. My ex used to send me texts to say...

Hey guys, I could really use some advice here. I'll try and summarize:

So at the beginning of the year I was at a work party. This cute guy from another floor approached me and chatted me up for...

Hey guys, I could really use some advice here. I'll try and summarize:

So at the beginning of the year I was at a work party. This cute guy from another floor approached me and chatted me up for...