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What I mean is marriage material VS sex material. These days with values so skewed and ill defined I thought it would be a helpful guide. Not that I go out drink smoke, do drugs, or sleep around, but...

I'd like to know what men think makes a woman wife material or mistress material.

Same here. The press always needs something to get worked up about.

Until recently, I ate like a dog, drank milk by the gallon, drank water like a fiend all summer, and ate all sorts of food, junk, lots of fruit, lots of fiber, breads, cheese sandwiches, ham and...

Just go and talk to a therapist. They know the minds of people and an expert is what you need.

When you sent the order, blocked him, etc., you made it pretty clear that you aren't interested and the point should have gotten across. He's not willing to face it; just keep blocking him out and...

Walk away. Move onto someone who isn't tied to their apron strings. Find someone who has validated themselves and is willing to take the responsibiity for their choices. If she doesn't make her own...

You aren't her family, okay. She claims it's YOUR FAULT that she does this. She's using you as a scapegoat for her mental problems that cause her to cut herself. I've been used as a scapegoat and...

When someone loses their job, gets robbed, that is a bad thing. Cutting yourself is another thing entirely and that shows a level of dysfunction that can't be solved except for the cutter. It shows...

Some of my favorite books:

The Left Behind series
"Empress Orchid" By Anchee Min
Stephen King books
Harry Potter series
Biographies by Carolly Erickson

Put frankly, that's HER choice. Get away from someone who cuts themselves and do it now.

Exactly. If you want to continue with a relationship, be very, very careful. She sounds flaky. As if you're supposed to rape her while she's helpless? Flakey.

Sort yourself out. You cannot take your past problems out on your next girlfriend/wife.

Take your time. Do you two look forward to seeing each other? Do you loathe how he might be married/dating someone else? Does he make you feel like a human?

Just sit him down and talk with him about how you realize you put too much of yourself out there too early and made yourself uncomfortable and ask if whether or not he understands that from then on...

You deserve an award for that statement.

She's a total flake. Home should be where the stability is, not where the chaos is.