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I just feel like this: if he had contacted any of my exes, I would have been cool with that. Why? It was always ended on good terms (I'm going to be in my other ex's wedding party actually). But I...

Hey all!

My ex and I dated for approximately two years but have known each other for about three. We were both Americans living abroad in Italy. We were very, very serious and quite committed. He...

Just spoke to him five minutes ago. He told me he's casually dating people.

We had a long heartfelt conversation. He told me that he is scared of getting hurt again by me. Back story: when we...

Good idea! I'm still going to put on some sexy underthings though ;)

THANKS!

Ok, don't flame me for this but this is a serious question: putting aside all the obvious emotions I still have for him, I want to have sex with him REALLY badly. Our physical chemistry is...

Two weeks until I vacation on spring break in Italy :) Very excited!

That is precisely why I don't want to be on the same block, even though I love that apartment! Don't want to suffocate him or myself.

Good! Sounds like a nice girl. :) Happy for you.

Wow, you're being completely unreasonable. Man code? What are you, 15? This man has ridden the bus with your wife every day for months. I don't see anything wrong with this. She is probably safer...

He just told me he's moving down the block from my apartment in Italy! Literally one block down. I had planned on moving back into my old building (there is a two floor apartment in my old building...

If she seems to be someone who is deserving of trust and is trustworthy, I am sure that she will take your reservations at face value. Even if she's going to have sex with someone of the same gender,...

First of all, there are a couple things that stood out to me.

1. Why are you checking her phone? Is this something you do with every girl friend? I would be horrified if my boyfriend checked my...

You're absolutely right. It's a given we'll reconnect immediately given we're both single and are friendly and attracted to one another, but the most important thing is seeing if it's indeed...

lol I am a total planner. But I will say this: after some NC on my part he emailed me today to let me know he moved and he asked me how I was. He now lives in an apartment in the city center (he used...

I think that this is all incredibly childish. You can't take three days post-breakup to realize you truly love someone. That is just your ego talking; we all want to desperately cling to something...

Speaking of Italy... I found the *perfect* apartment online. I hope it's available in 25 days for me to go visit it in person and hopefully sign a contract. My life is finally being what I want it to...

I have to second that what he is doing is very inappropriate. One of you will have to go if this escalates and it will most likely be you. I suggest you tell him to stop or that you speak to another...

Yeah, you either love it or you hate it! It's hard to find work nowadays in Italy but I have dual citizenship and speak the language fluently, not to mention work from home. So it helps mitigate the...

True chemistry and a great connection does indeed last forever, however we all know that a good connection does not a relationship make. You need some serious communication, dedication and really put...

Yup. Wanna see where I lived? On an unrelated note... lol

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Adorable, right? :D Now you can see why I want to go back!

Thanks for your reply, haxan! I'm definitely not naive to think that you can "trap" a man with sex (bad choice of words), but I do know that a man can keep you around for sex until the next better...

It's easy for someone who was not in the relationship to feel that way. There were aspects of his personality and, well, essence, that did not sit well with me just like there were things I did that...

All interesting replies! I'll try to answer each point one by one. I really appreciate you all taking the time out to speak.. er, type with me about this. :D



When I last saw him in November,...

Another question for the dudes... :D

I'm not a naive person. I've had my fair share of boyfriends/sexual partners and am in no way, shape or form ashamed about the act of sex or making love....

Oh no dude, I totally admit it. I generally do miss him. It breaks my heart. You can't know someone for three years, have their child inside you, be fully accepted by his friends and family and then...